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“A world without love is a deadly place”
“Since the heaven and earth were created, you were made for me and I was made for you, and I will not let you go,” declared Chang Po to his beloved Meilan (Yutang 1954, P.73). The Chinese still cry over this Chinese fable.
Paris and Helen, Orpheus and Eurydice, Shiva and Sati, Laila and Majnu, we can come accross thousands of stories, poem, writing accross centuries over continents. There is one single thing common i.e Love. We spend our lives searching for it, talking about it, craving it. Love is called the greatest virtue. Sometimes we can't express it, it has to be felt.
Love is complex and fascinating. Romantic love is more complex and more mystery, hard to explain. As per psychological studies romantic love is associated with emotions, motivations and behaviors. In romantic love lovers experience extreme energy, hyperactivity, sleeplessness, moodswing etc. An important property of romantic love is 'intrusive thinking'.
Our Brain on Love..
We think that love and relationships are art than science, but there is actually a part of
science involved with falling in love. Both men and women experiences many changes during romantic love. Did you know that the chemicals released when we are falling in love are similar to the chemicals released when a person uses cocaine? Its true. But what is in that love that puts a person on 'cloud nine'?
“The first step in the process of falling in love is the initial attraction, It’s the powerful moment when we meet another person and feel energized and are immediately aware of our heart pounding.” says Elizabeth Kane,a clinical psychologist of South University. By psychologist Robert Sternberg, the three components of love are 'intimacy', 'passion', and 'commitment' - ( according to Triangular theory of love)
Intimacy, Intimacy refers to feelings of closeness,
association with our loved ones.
Passion, Passion refers to the strong and intense desire for love and sex.
Commitment, is the decision that one loves other, and commitment to maintain that love.
“Romantic love evolves when one feels a sense of interdependence, attachment, and that their psychological needs are being met.”
Science behind love..
I have some beautiful experience of watching my friends falling in love, even I watched myself falling in love. Person in love always smile when they talk about their mate, and they always like to talk a lot about them. Although people experience love uniquly. There are biological attraction behind the initial attraction and falling in love.
Dopamine, which is originated from brain and adrenal glands, stimulates the release of testosterone. Dopamine affects the genitals, the sweat glands, and also the senses. probably you have noticed that when you are in primary stages of love, you sweat more. As a consequence of dopamine release, mood and emotions are also influenced, leading to feelings of excitement and satisfaction. On other side, testosterone increases sexual desireness and aggressive behaviour and it may push someone to pursue the one who is fueling this intense response.
The neurotransmitters norepinephrine and phenylethylamine(PEA) act to focused attention. Norepinephrine is a stimulant, so it causes individuals to feel alert such as unable to sleep, and make them to notice and remember even the tiny of details about their mate. PEA is responsible for the feelings of dizziness. If the relationship doesn’t last, and PEA levels decreases and are responsible for the feelings of depression that can be experienced.
A feedback loop starts to form, with a brain reward system becoming involved. The reward system transmit chemical messages, via neurotransmitters, to various parts of the body, including the stomach, skin, genitals and other organs, which causes them to reciprokete to the brain. During the primary stages of love, this reward system is stimulated through very simple way such as, a lover’s touch, seeing their photograph, or even just thinking about this person can increase elevated mood. According to the study conducted by Dr. Helen Fisher using functional magnetic resonance imaging(fMRI) on those who were passionately in love(ten women and seven men) found that those brain reward system got activated even on looking at their lover pictures.
Where we are going...
Love, the word itself brings smile on our faces. The existance of love in in Every single civilization, era. But a few people thniks that romantic love i.e romance is created in twelveth century but first love poem dated 4000 years back. But some says love is the most powerful force in universe. Can we imagine our life without love? What if love would not exist in future? Have we ever thought about these question? I think most of us will say 'no'. Because we cannot live without love whether that love is for our mate, love for our children, love for our parents, love for our society. Only love can bring peace in our hectic world. We cannot say about future, we only can predict it. Let's see where love will take us!
What can be the conclusion of an infinite feeling! It does not matter whoever you are, love always guide your life and your daily life activity. Love will give you meaning of everything in nature. Love is worth us and what we possess. Love drives from our heart, and let it be driving force of everything and let it live in our heart to influence, guide, heal and motivate yourselves and others.
“Where there is love, there is life”
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Girl: Why do you like me..? Why do you love me?
Boy: I can’t provide the reason. But I really like you…
Girl: You can’t even tell me the reason… how can you say you like me? How can you say you love me?
Boy: I really don’t know the reason, but I can definitely prove that I love you.
Girl: Proof? No! I want you to tell me the reasons only . My friend’s boyfriend can tell her why he loves her but not you!
Boy: Ok...ok!!! I am saying. Because you are beautiful, your eyes are beauteous, because your voice is sweet, because you are caring, because you are loving, because you are thoughtful, because of your charming smile, because of your everything you hold in your hearts 💕. The girl felt very satisfied with the boy’s answer.
Unfortunately, a few days later, the girl went into the coma stage due to an accident . She can’t move anywhere now.
The Boy then placed a letter by her side, and here is the content:
Because of your melodious voice that I love you…Now can you talk? No! Therefore I cannot love you.
Because of your care and concern that I like you…Now that you cannot show them, therefore I cannot love you.
Because of your smile, because of your every subtle things that I love you…Now can you smile? Now can you move?
No, therefore, I cannot love you.
If love needs a reason, like now, there is no reason for me to love you anymore.
Does love need a reason now ? NO!
Therefore, I still love you…And love pays no heed to any reason.
With love always,
My experience of having a urinary infection in thailand!
One of my boyfriend's colleagues came up with an idea of going on a trip, and they were sweet enough to ask me and him! So we agreed and there we were- 6 adults and one child on an adventure trip to Thailand!
So we started the journey on a flight, AirAsia, which was pretty pocket friendly- thanks to my boyfriend who is a master planner(somebody make him a manager already:P) and his colleague.
When we reached Bangkok at first it looked just like India, and we were a little disappointed considering what we had in mind(google images to blame), but that thought soon changed once we reached Pattaya! Pretty beach, foreigners all around people roaming around and having fun- our smiles were broadened again. Since we were planning to stay for 4 days, we had booked an apartment, and the apartment looked like it was just created for us. Completely white with black furniture , it was a treat to the eyes. Now the only challenge was the owner wanted it as spotless as it was when we leave, and that was a challenge, and my clumsiness surely would not help with that.
Anyways it was a fun experience! Because we were in a house, we were not stuck in separate rooms and could instead spend time together. I will write about different experiences later, but there is one that I want to specifically mentioned.
Just as we were leaving for the trip I started getting symptoms of UTI(Urinary Tract Infection)– for those who don’t know it’s a symptom where you want to pee all the time and you get a burning sensation if you don't. Yes it is exactly as horrible as it sounds! And no it is not fun when travelling:(
Luckily we kept the medicine for it just as a safety option, and THANK GOD we did that, otherwise I would be writing about some embarrassing incident instead of this happy story..hehe:P
This problem made it very difficult for me to enjoy the time out. Beach days were good as my body was not heated as much and we were in water all the time, making it easier for ..you know..;) (no judging allowed if you have not been through this!). But other days it was hell, I cannot explain how hard it was to deal with it.
And enter my hero! :-* First up it was difficult sharing this with him back home, but he was so supportive of it when I did, and I glad I did it:)
I had to stop at every washroom we came across, and it was tiring, but I was so glad my sweetheart was there. He made sure we stop at every restroom and he kept his eyes open to search for one.
I know it must have felt irritating to be with someone who always wanted to pee, I mean I am his girlfriend and I am supposed to be perfect. This was far from perfect, but he never made me feel that way! He joked it off and gave me strength every day to step out of the house where we would be unsure if there is a restroom.
And I am glad he did because we had the most amazing time! It was literally picture perfect, me and him, on the beach at night, with cool breeze all around us. Plus we saw a couple make out..hehe
It was amazing. You think you know a person, but you see so many new sides of them as time goes, and you fall in love with each side.
And for me, on the trip I saw this caring loving and UTI tolerant boyfriend , and fell in love all over again.:)