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एक दिन एक लड़की के पास Facebook पर एक
लड़के की friend Request आती है...
की Pic देख कर लड़की उसे Cancel कर देती है
क्योँकि लड़के की Pic उसे पंसद नहीँ आती...
लड़का बार-बार उसे Request send करता है इस
से तंग आकर लड़की उसे add कर लेती है...
लड़का उसे कभी good morning..evening..
खाना खाया.. ये सब msg करने लगा...
लड़की ignor करती पर बार-बार msg करने पर
वो Reply देने लगी..
धीरे-धीरे दोनोँ बहुत अच्छे
दोस्त बन गये..
लड़के का नाम "RAJ" था... और
वो Ship पर Job करता था.. अभी वो Holidays
पर घर आया था कुछ दिनो मेँ उसे फिर से Job पर
दिन बीतते गये और लड़के के Ship पर
जाने का दिन भीँ आ गया... उसने जाने से पहले
लड़की को Call किया और उस से
पूछा की क्या वो उसे LOVE करती हैँ..?
सुन कर चुप हो गयी..
वो उसे प्यार तो करती थी पर
अभी थोड़ा वक्त और चाहती थी.. so लड़की ने
बोला कि "मैँ तुम्हेँ Like करती हूँ... अगर तुम्हारे
जाने पर मुझेँ तुम्हारी याद आई तो मैँ वापस आने पर
तुम्हेँ जवाब दे दूँगी"..
लड़का चला गया... पूरा 1
month गुजर गया RAJ का कोई Call msg
नहीँ आया.. लड़की को उसकी बहुत याद आती...
उसका बार-बार msg करना... care करना सब उसे
बहुत याद आने लगा..
लड़की बस उसके Call
का wait करती और सोचती की इस बार वो RAJ
को बोल देगी की वो उसे बहुत प्यार करती है..
RAJ के प्यार का एहसास हो गया था...
बहार के नम्बर से Call आने पर उसने जल्दी से
एक लड़का बोला.... "
ROSHNI बोल रही है".....?...?
मैँ RAJ का Friend
बोल रहा हूँ..
RAJ का Ship की शिडियोँ से पैर Slip
हो गया, जिस से उसके सर पर गहरी चोट लगी और
अभी 3 Days पहले उसकी Death हो गयी...
वो हमेशा कहता था कि आप उसे miss कर
आप अपना ख्याल रखीयेगा RAJ की ये
ही Last wish थी" लड़की फोन रख कर बस
वक्त बीत गया पर आज
भीँ वो लड़की जब Facebook open करती है
तो उसे इंतज़ार रहता है कहीँ RAJ का msg आ
"खाना खाया तुमने"......?...?
जिस से प्यार हो उसे दिल की बात बताने मे देर न करे !!!!!
CHAPTER 3 REAL LOVE STORY
The next morng i wish her gud mrng..with a mrng greeting..
And i dun knw why but she
was very angry at that time...
She simply said,''bye.''
Don't talk to me...
Then i asked the reason for her angerness..
She replied sorry yaar..
I asked why..??
She- me hmesa kisi aur ka gussa kisi aur pe utar
i dun knw log aisha kyu karte
hai..phle to khud baatein chupate hai..
aur phir hme kisi aur se pta chlta hai to excuses bnate
jaise hme kuch pta hi na ho..disgusting..
Dey r something from inside and something from outside..fake..
(i didn't get that it was her exact wordings.. )
He- to m hi milta hoon kya sbka gussa utarne k
After that she didn't rply me for 30-40 minutes..
I sent a msg to her...''oye mujhe tujhse kuch
She- kyuki sbse jyada bkwaas tumhi krte ho
isiliye tumhi milte ho.. And kya kaam tha..??
He- kuch nahi yaal wo to idea tha rply lene ka..
And m aisha hi thik hu..
ladkiyoon se simple baatein kro to bolti hai..saala cheap line marne ki sochta hai..
She- hahahaha ladko ki simple baatein bhi simple ni hoti...
Then she said tum aishi baatein bhi kar lete ho..
He- omg! Line maar ri ho kya.. hahaha
She- nahi..abhi scale nhi h na..line maari to tedi
bhi lag skti h..phir kahin bhi ja skti hai..
He- hahaha to phle scale khrid le..
She- nahi..zarurt nhi hai..
He- to kab pdegi..??
She- wo to pta ni..
He- to kisi ''baba'' se pooch le..wo bta dega..
She- i don't believe in all these rubbish things..
He- hmmmm..nw bye t'cr..
The next day..
He-(in funny mood).. Oye line kaise marte hai
mujhe sikhao na..??
She- hmmm...kya baat hai..?? Tujhe kon mil gyi
He- bta na..
She- yaar ladkiyon ko line marni hi nahi
chahiye..unko bas thoda sa style maaro khud hi
piche aa jayengi..
He- styles..?? Jaise..??
She- main kya line marne ka tution deti hoon..??
He- main tujhpe marne ki soch rha tha but
tumne btaya hi nahi..
She- acha hua nahi btaya... And dun even think
abt it okk...
And haan idiot 9 baj gye bye gud nyt swt drms..
He- gud nyt swt drms u too...
Meri bkwass ki taraf se ek sher arz kiya hai.. Inni pyaar se bye mt bol pagli ...nahi to pyaar se tujhe pyaar wala pyaar ho jayega...
But she didn't rply for it at that time..then i also
went to my bed..and started thinking abt her
rply for it...sochte sochte pta hi ni chla kb so gya
Then i woke up in the mrng..nd as usual
checked my phn.. And saw a msg from her..
She- omg kya hoga tumhara... Gud mrng have a
He- gud mrng n same to u...
In the night...
I sent a msg....and that msg was... " ye le meri line oye ______________________________ ____"
Mili kya meri line..???
She- kya kar rhe ho..???
Pagal ho tum..?? Inni lambi line maroge kya...??
And this was the last msg from her on that
night...at 11:18 pm...
I was in bed at that time...and was sleeping...
“A world without love is a deadly place”
“Since the heaven and earth were created, you were made for me and I was made for you, and I will not let you go,” declared Chang Po to his beloved Meilan (Yutang 1954, P.73). The Chinese still cry over this Chinese fable.
Paris and Helen, Orpheus and Eurydice, Shiva and Sati, Laila and Majnu, we can come accross thousands of stories, poem, writing accross centuries over continents. There is one single thing common i.e Love. We spend our lives searching for it, talking about it, craving it. Love is called the greatest virtue. Sometimes we can't express it, it has to be felt.
Love is complex and fascinating. Romantic love is more complex and more mystery, hard to explain. As per psychological studies romantic love is associated with emotions, motivations and behaviors. In romantic love lovers experience extreme energy, hyperactivity, sleeplessness, moodswing etc. An important property of romantic love is 'intrusive thinking'.
Our Brain on Love..
We think that love and relationships are art than science, but there is actually a part of
science involved with falling in love. Both men and women experiences many changes during romantic love. Did you know that the chemicals released when we are falling in love are similar to the chemicals released when a person uses cocaine? Its true. But what is in that love that puts a person on 'cloud nine'?
“The first step in the process of falling in love is the initial attraction, It’s the powerful moment when we meet another person and feel energized and are immediately aware of our heart pounding.” says Elizabeth Kane,a clinical psychologist of South University. By psychologist Robert Sternberg, the three components of love are 'intimacy', 'passion', and 'commitment' - ( according to Triangular theory of love)
Intimacy, Intimacy refers to feelings of closeness,
association with our loved ones.
Passion, Passion refers to the strong and intense desire for love and sex.
Commitment, is the decision that one loves other, and commitment to maintain that love.
“Romantic love evolves when one feels a sense of interdependence, attachment, and that their psychological needs are being met.”
Science behind love..
I have some beautiful experience of watching my friends falling in love, even I watched myself falling in love. Person in love always smile when they talk about their mate, and they always like to talk a lot about them. Although people experience love uniquly. There are biological attraction behind the initial attraction and falling in love.
Dopamine, which is originated from brain and adrenal glands, stimulates the release of testosterone. Dopamine affects the genitals, the sweat glands, and also the senses. probably you have noticed that when you are in primary stages of love, you sweat more. As a consequence of dopamine release, mood and emotions are also influenced, leading to feelings of excitement and satisfaction. On other side, testosterone increases sexual desireness and aggressive behaviour and it may push someone to pursue the one who is fueling this intense response.
The neurotransmitters norepinephrine and phenylethylamine(PEA) act to focused attention. Norepinephrine is a stimulant, so it causes individuals to feel alert such as unable to sleep, and make them to notice and remember even the tiny of details about their mate. PEA is responsible for the feelings of dizziness. If the relationship doesn’t last, and PEA levels decreases and are responsible for the feelings of depression that can be experienced.
A feedback loop starts to form, with a brain reward system becoming involved. The reward system transmit chemical messages, via neurotransmitters, to various parts of the body, including the stomach, skin, genitals and other organs, which causes them to reciprokete to the brain. During the primary stages of love, this reward system is stimulated through very simple way such as, a lover’s touch, seeing their photograph, or even just thinking about this person can increase elevated mood. According to the study conducted by Dr. Helen Fisher using functional magnetic resonance imaging(fMRI) on those who were passionately in love(ten women and seven men) found that those brain reward system got activated even on looking at their lover pictures.
Where we are going...
Love, the word itself brings smile on our faces. The existance of love in in Every single civilization, era. But a few people thniks that romantic love i.e romance is created in twelveth century but first love poem dated 4000 years back. But some says love is the most powerful force in universe. Can we imagine our life without love? What if love would not exist in future? Have we ever thought about these question? I think most of us will say 'no'. Because we cannot live without love whether that love is for our mate, love for our children, love for our parents, love for our society. Only love can bring peace in our hectic world. We cannot say about future, we only can predict it. Let's see where love will take us!
What can be the conclusion of an infinite feeling! It does not matter whoever you are, love always guide your life and your daily life activity. Love will give you meaning of everything in nature. Love is worth us and what we possess. Love drives from our heart, and let it be driving force of everything and let it live in our heart to influence, guide, heal and motivate yourselves and others.
“Where there is love, there is life”