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"kese btau me tumhy tum mery liye kon ho kese btau me tumhy tum dharkano ka geet ho jeewan ka tum sangeet ho tum zindagi tum bandagi tum roshni tum tazgi tum har khushi tum pyar ho preet ho manmeet ho needo me tum yado me tum saanso me tum aanho me tum tum ho meri har bat me tum ho din raat me tum subah me tum sham me tum soch me tum kaam me tum mery liye paana b tum mery liye khona b tum mery liye hasna b tum mery liye rona b tum or jaagna sona b tum jau kaha dekhu kahi tum ho ho waha tum ho wahi kese btau me tumhy tum bin to me kuch b nahi kese btau me tumhy tum mery liye kon ho kese btau ?????? yeh jo tumhara roop hy ye zindagi ki dhoop h chandan s tarsha hy badan behti hy jis me gaggan yeh shokhiyan ye mastiyan tum ko hawao se mili zulfen ghattao s mili honto p kaliyan khil gai ankho ko jheelen mil gai chehry me simti chandni awaz me h ragni heerni k jesa ang pholo k jesa rang h nadyo k jesi chaal h kiya hussun hy kia haal hy ye jism ki rangeeniyan jese hazaro titliyan bahon ki ye golaiyan aaho ki parchaiyan yeh nagriyan hen khuwab ki kese btau me tumhy halat dill e betaab ki kese btau me tum mery liye tum kon ho mery liye tum dharm ho tum hee ibadat ho meri tum he chahat ho meri tum hee mera armaan ho takta hu me hr pal jisy tum he wo tasveer ho tum hee takdeer ho tum hee sitara homera tum he nazara ho mera yu mery dhiyan me ho tum jese mujy ghairy ho tum poorab mr tum pakshin me tum uttar me tum dhakin me tum tum saary mery jeewan me tum har pal me tum hat chin me tum tum mery liye rasta b tum manzil b tum mery liye saahil b tum mery liye sagar b tum me dekhta bas tumko hu me janta bas tumko ho me maanta bas tum ko hu tum bee meri pehchan ho kese me btau tumhy mery liye devi ho tum mery liye bhgwan ho kese btau mery liye tum kon ho kese btau ? kese btau ?"

kese btau me tumhy tum mery liye kon ho 

kese btau me tumhy tum dharkano ka geet ho
jeewan ka tum sangeet ho 
tum zindagi tum bandagi
tum roshni tum tazgi
tum har khushi 
tum pyar ho preet ho manmeet ho
needo me tum yado me tum
saanso me tum aanho me tum
tum ho meri har bat me tum ho din raat me
tum subah me tum sham me tum 
soch me tum kaam me tum
mery liye paana b tum mery liye khona b tum
mery liye hasna b tum mery liye rona b tum
or jaagna sona b tum
jau kaha  dekhu kahi tum ho ho waha tum ho wahi
kese btau me tumhy tum bin to me kuch b nahi 
kese btau me tumhy tum mery liye kon ho 
kese btau ??????
yeh jo tumhara roop hy ye zindagi ki dhoop h 
chandan s tarsha hy badan behti hy jis me gaggan
yeh shokhiyan ye mastiyan tum ko hawao se mili 
zulfen ghattao s mili 
honto p kaliyan khil gai ankho ko jheelen mil gai 
chehry me simti chandni awaz me h ragni
heerni k jesa ang pholo k jesa rang h 
 nadyo k jesi chaal h 
kiya hussun hy kia haal hy 
ye jism ki rangeeniyan jese hazaro titliyan 
bahon ki ye golaiyan aaho ki parchaiyan
yeh nagriyan hen khuwab ki 
kese btau me tumhy halat dill e betaab ki
kese btau me tum mery liye tum kon ho 
mery liye tum dharm ho 
tum hee ibadat ho meri tum he chahat ho meri
tum hee mera armaan ho
takta hu me hr pal jisy tum he wo tasveer ho
tum hee takdeer ho tum hee sitara homera 
tum he nazara ho mera 
yu mery dhiyan me ho tum jese mujy ghairy ho tum
poorab mr tum pakshin me tum
uttar me tum dhakin me tum 
tum saary mery jeewan me tum
har pal me tum hat chin me tum 
tum mery liye rasta b tum manzil b tum 
mery liye saahil b tum mery liye sagar b tum 
me dekhta bas tumko hu me janta bas tumko ho 
me maanta bas tum ko hu 
tum bee meri pehchan ho 
kese me btau tumhy mery liye devi ho tum 

mery liye bhgwan ho 

kese btau mery liye tum kon ho 

kese btau ?
kese btau ?

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"Tum Kaisi Mohabbat karti Ho..!! Tum Jab Bhi Ghar Par Aati Ho Aur Sab Say Batain Karti Ho Mein Aout Say Parday ki Janaa'n Bus Tum Ko Dekhta Rehta Hoon Ik Tum Ko Dekhnay Ki Khatir Mein Kitna Pagal Hota Hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jab Darwazay Par Dastak Ho Ya Ghanti Phone Ki Bajti Ho Mein Chor K Sab Kuch Bhagta Hoon Aur Tum Ko Jo Na Paoon Tou Ji Bhar K Ronay Lagta Hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Mehfil Mein Kahin Bhi Jana Ho Kapron Ka Selection Kerna Ho Rang Bohat Say Samnay Bikhray Hoon Us Rang Pe Dil Aa Jata Hai Jo Rang K Tum Ko Bhata Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Rozana Apnay College Mein Kisi Aur Ka Lecture Suntay Hoay Ya Break K Khali Ghantay Mein dosti Say Batain Kertay Hoay Meray Dhiyan Mein Tum Aa Jati Ho Mein, Mein Nahin Rehta Phir Janan Mein Tum Mein Gum Ho Jata hoon Bus Khuwabon Mein Kho Jata Hoon Un Aankhon Mein Kho Jata Hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jis Chehray Par Bhi Nighah Paray Her Chehra Tum Sa Lagta Hai Wo Sham Ho Ya Ke Dhop Samey Sab Kitna Bhala Sa Lagta Hai Janay Ye Kaisa Nasha Hai Garmi Ka Tapta Mausam Bhi Jaray Ka Maheena Lagta Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Tum Jab Bhi Samnay Aati Ho Mein Tum Say Sunn'na Chahta Hoon Kash Kabhi Tum Ye Keh Do Tum Mujh Say Muhabbat Kerti Ho Tum Mujh Ko Bohat Hi Chahti Ho Lekin Janay Tum Kyun Chup Ho Yeh Soch K Dil Ghabrata Hai Aisa Tou Nahin Hai Na janan Sirf Meri Nazar Ka Dhoka Ho Tum Nay Mujh Ko Chaha Hi Na Ho Koi Aur Hi Dil Mein Rehta Ho Mein Tum Say Poochna Chahta hoon Mein Tum Say Kehna Chahta hoon Lekin Kuch Pooch Nahin Sakta Mana Ke Muhabbat Hai Phir Bhi Lab Apnay Khol Nahin Sakta Mein Larka Hoon Kaisay Keh Doon Mein Kaisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Mein Tum Say Ye Kaisay Pochoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho......!! Chup Chap See Mein Ho Jata Hoon Phir Dil Mein Apnay Kehta hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho...... tum kaisi mohabbat karti ho .????????????"

Tum Kaisi Mohabbat karti Ho..!! Tum Jab
Bhi Ghar Par Aati Ho Aur Sab Say Batain
Karti Ho Mein Aout Say Parday ki Janaa'n
Bus Tum Ko Dekhta Rehta Hoon Ik Tum Ko
Dekhnay Ki Khatir Mein Kitna Pagal Hota
Hoon
Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jab Darwazay Par
Dastak Ho Ya Ghanti Phone Ki Bajti Ho Mein
Chor K Sab Kuch Bhagta Hoon Aur Tum Ko Jo
Na Paoon Tou Ji Bhar K Ronay Lagta Hoon
Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Mehfil Mein Kahin
Bhi Jana Ho Kapron Ka Selection Kerna Ho
Rang Bohat Say Samnay Bikhray Hoon Us
Rang Pe Dil Aa Jata Hai Jo Rang K Tum Ko
Bhata Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon
Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Rozana
Apnay College Mein Kisi Aur Ka Lecture
Suntay Hoay Ya Break K Khali Ghantay Mein
dosti Say Batain Kertay Hoay Meray
Dhiyan Mein Tum Aa Jati Ho Mein, Mein
Nahin Rehta Phir Janan Mein Tum Mein Gum
Ho Jata hoon Bus Khuwabon Mein Kho Jata
Hoon Un Aankhon Mein Kho Jata Hoon Mein
Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jis Chehray Par Bhi
Nighah Paray Her Chehra Tum Sa Lagta Hai
Wo Sham Ho Ya Ke Dhop Samey Sab Kitna
Bhala Sa Lagta Hai Janay Ye Kaisa Nasha
Hai Garmi Ka Tapta Mausam Bhi Jaray Ka
Maheena Lagta Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta
Hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Tum
Jab Bhi Samnay Aati Ho Mein Tum Say
Sunn'na Chahta Hoon Kash Kabhi Tum Ye Keh
Do Tum Mujh Say Muhabbat Kerti Ho Tum
Mujh Ko Bohat Hi Chahti Ho Lekin Janay
Tum Kyun Chup Ho Yeh Soch K Dil Ghabrata
Hai Aisa Tou Nahin Hai Na janan Sirf Meri
Nazar Ka Dhoka Ho Tum Nay Mujh Ko Chaha
Hi Na Ho Koi Aur Hi Dil Mein Rehta Ho Mein
Tum Say Poochna Chahta hoon Mein Tum Say
Kehna Chahta hoon Lekin Kuch Pooch Nahin
Sakta Mana Ke Muhabbat Hai Phir Bhi Lab
Apnay Khol Nahin Sakta Mein Larka Hoon
Kaisay Keh Doon Mein Kaisi Muhabbat Kerta
Hoon Mein Tum Say Ye Kaisay Pochoon Tum
Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho......!! Chup Chap
See Mein Ho Jata Hoon Phir Dil Mein Apnay
Kehta hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon
Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho......
tum kaisi mohabbat karti ho .????????????

aryan_0625

Tum Kaisi Mohabbat karti Ho..!! Tum Jab
Bhi Ghar Par Aati Ho Aur Sab Say Batain
Karti Ho Mein Aout Say Parday ki Janaa'n
Bus Tum Ko Dekhta Rehta Hoon Ik Tum Ko
Dekhnay Ki Khatir Mein Kitna Pagal Hota
Hoon
Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jab Darwazay Par
Dastak Ho Ya Ghanti Phone Ki Bajti Ho Mein
Chor K Sab Kuch Bhagta Hoon Aur Tum Ko Jo
Na Paoon Tou Ji Bhar K Ronay Lagta Hoon
Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Mehfil Mein Kahin
Bhi Jana Ho Kapron Ka Selection Kerna Ho
Rang Bohat Say Samnay Bikhray Hoon Us
Rang Pe Dil Aa Jata Hai Jo Rang K Tum Ko
Bhata Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon
Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Rozana
Apnay College Mein Kisi Aur Ka Lecture
Suntay Hoay Ya Break K Khali Ghantay Mein
dosti Say Batain Kertay Hoay Meray
Dhiyan Mein Tum Aa Jati Ho Mein, Mein
Nahin Rehta Phir Janan Mein Tum Mein Gum
Ho Jata hoon Bus Khuwabon Mein Kho Jata
Hoon Un Aankhon Mein Kho Jata Hoon Mein
Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jis Chehray Par Bhi
Nighah Paray Her Chehra Tum Sa Lagta Hai
Wo Sham Ho Ya Ke Dhop Samey Sab Kitna
Bhala Sa Lagta Hai Janay Ye Kaisa Nasha
Hai Garmi Ka Tapta Mausam Bhi Jaray Ka
Maheena Lagta Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta
Hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Tum
Jab Bhi Samnay Aati Ho Mein Tum Say
Sunn'na Chahta Hoon Kash Kabhi Tum Ye Keh
Do Tum Mujh Say Muhabbat Kerti Ho Tum
Mujh Ko Bohat Hi Chahti Ho Lekin Janay
Tum Kyun Chup Ho Yeh Soch K Dil Ghabrata
Hai Aisa Tou Nahin Hai Na janan Sirf Meri
Nazar Ka Dhoka Ho Tum Nay Mujh Ko Chaha
Hi Na Ho Koi Aur Hi Dil Mein Rehta Ho Mein
Tum Say Poochna Chahta hoon Mein Tum Say
Kehna Chahta hoon Lekin Kuch Pooch Nahin
Sakta Mana Ke Muhabbat Hai Phir Bhi Lab
Apnay Khol Nahin Sakta Mein Larka Hoon
Kaisay Keh Doon Mein Kaisi Muhabbat Kerta
Hoon Mein Tum Say Ye Kaisay Pochoon Tum
Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho......!! Chup Chap
See Mein Ho Jata Hoon Phir Dil Mein Apnay
Kehta hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon
Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho......
tum kaisi mohabbat karti ho .????????????

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"HAR PAL EK EHSAAS HO TUM SAAHIL HU MAIN , SAAHIL KA ARMAAN HO TUM, ZINDAGI JEENA KA TARIKA TUM, HASNE KA SALEEKA HO TUM , JISE KABHI NA BHUL PAU WOH KHUSHI HO TUM, JISKE BINA NA DEKH PAU WOH ROSHNI HO TUM , DIL KI DHAKDAN HO TUM , AANKHON KI THANDAK HO TUM , MERA KHUDA HO TUM , MERA SAJDA HO TUM, MERI IBAADAT HO TUM MERI ZARURAT HO TUM, TUMSE ZINDAGI HAI TUMSE HE BANDAGI HAI, MERA HAR ALFAAZ HO TUM , MERA JEENA KA RAAZ HO TUM , MERA KHAYAL HO TUM MERA KHWAB HO TUM , MERI ZINDAGI KI PYARI SE HAAQEEQAT HO TUM , JEENE KI FAZILAT HO TUM, NAYAAB HO TUM , SHABAAB HO TUM, HASNE KI WAJAH HO TUM , GHAM MAIN RONE KI SAZA HO TUM, JISE BHUL NA PAU WOH YAAD HO TUM , MERE LIKHNE KA ANDAAZ HO TUM , MERA HAR NAMAAZ HO TUM MERI HAR POOJA HO TUM , KYA KAHU KYA NAHI HO TUM BUS YEHI KEHTA HU MAIN TUMHARA HOON AUR MERI HO TUM. I LOVE YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING C @ Saahil"

HAR PAL EK EHSAAS HO TUM 
SAAHIL HU MAIN , 
SAAHIL KA ARMAAN HO TUM, 
ZINDAGI JEENA KA TARIKA TUM,
HASNE KA SALEEKA HO TUM , 
JISE KABHI NA BHUL PAU WOH KHUSHI HO TUM,
JISKE BINA NA DEKH PAU WOH ROSHNI HO TUM , 
DIL KI DHAKDAN HO TUM ,
AANKHON KI THANDAK HO TUM ,  
MERA KHUDA HO TUM  , 
MERA SAJDA HO TUM,
 MERI IBAADAT HO TUM MERI ZARURAT HO TUM,
 TUMSE ZINDAGI HAI TUMSE HE BANDAGI HAI,
 MERA HAR ALFAAZ HO TUM ,
 MERA JEENA KA RAAZ HO TUM ,
 MERA KHAYAL HO TUM MERA KHWAB HO TUM ,
 MERI ZINDAGI KI PYARI SE HAAQEEQAT HO TUM ,
 JEENE KI FAZILAT HO TUM, NAYAAB HO TUM ,
 SHABAAB HO TUM, HASNE KI WAJAH HO TUM ,
 GHAM MAIN RONE KI SAZA HO TUM,
   JISE BHUL NA PAU WOH YAAD HO TUM ,
 MERE LIKHNE KA ANDAAZ HO TUM ,  
MERA HAR NAMAAZ HO TUM MERI HAR POOJA HO TUM ,
 KYA KAHU KYA NAHI HO TUM
BUS YEHI KEHTA HU MAIN TUMHARA HOON AUR MERI HO TUM. 
I LOVE YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING

C @ Saahil

HAR PAL EK EHSAAS HO TUM
SAAHIL HU MAIN ,
SAAHIL KA ARMAAN HO TUM,
ZINDAGI JEENA KA TARIKA TUM,
HASNE KA SALEEKA HO TUM ,
JISE KABHI NA BHUL PAU WOH KHUSHI HO TUM,
JISKE BINA NA DEKH PAU WOH ROSHNI HO TUM ,
DIL KI DHAKDAN HO TUM ,
AANKHON KI THANDAK HO TUM ,
MERA KHUDA HO TUM ,
MERA SAJDA HO TUM,
MERI IBAADAT HO TUM MERI ZARURAT HO TUM,
TUMSE ZINDAGI HAI TUMSE HE BANDAGI HAI,
MERA HAR ALFAAZ HO TUM ,
MERA JEENA KA RAAZ HO TUM ,
MERA KHAYAL HO TUM MERA KHWAB HO TUM ,
MERI ZINDAGI KI PYARI SE HAAQEEQAT HO TUM ,
JEENE KI FAZILAT HO TUM, NAYAAB HO TUM ,
SHABAAB HO TUM, HASNE KI WAJAH HO TUM ,
GHAM MAIN RONE KI SAZA HO TUM,
JISE BHUL NA PAU WOH YAAD HO TUM ,
MERE LIKHNE KA ANDAAZ HO TUM ,
MERA HAR NAMAAZ HO TUM MERI HAR POOJA HO TUM ,
KYA KAHU KYA NAHI HO TUM
BUS YEHI KEHTA HU MAIN TUMHARA HOON AUR MERI HO TUM.
I LOVE YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING

C @ Saahil

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Five Golden Principles
Wherever you live, there you are living in your home. The significance is not in living in your home, but if you live in God's kingdom then there is much significance and greatness. This home (kingdom) you have called your own. But this home was from the very beginning belonging to God only. Even right now it is God's and later on also it will remain God's. If you die, then surely this house will not go with you. It belongs to God only. Therefore from today onwards, accept that I live in God's home. Really speaking you are living in God's home. When you come to Haridwar the you say - Oh ! this is gateway to God's home. When you come to Vrindavan you say that this is the place where God engaged in His divine loving pastimes. When you go to Ayodhya then you say we have come to God's palace. Accept it as God's kingdom or God's home, then this very house that you live in will become Vrindavan. At all times let that thought prevail, that I am living in God's home, and we are his very dear ones that belong to him. From today onwards accept this. All of you, do not consider your home as belonging to you. Oh' It is God's home! We have considered it our home in the middle somewhere. Before it was God's, and later on it will be God's then in the middle how can it become ours? Simply for no reason you have put a stamp on it. There is a point that you must pay close attention to - whatever work you do, accept it as God's work and then do it. Whether it is washing your clothes, taking a bath. This body is also God's, therefore to serve God you are doing it's work. Eating and drinking is also God's work. Office work and business is also God's work. The Master of this entire world is God, therefore the master of all the bodies is also God.Therefore work related to this body and to this world can be whose work? It is God's work only! What a wonderful thing this is! We live in God's kingdom and we are doing His work - these are two points. Now the third point is - All the things that are in the house, they too belong to God only. If the house belongs to God and you belong to God then can the things belong to someone else? Mothers and sisters should want that they should take those things that belong to God and cook with them. In the mind must be the thought that Oh! it is for offering food to God that I am cooking this meal. Now offer the foods prepared to God and thereafter however many people that are in the house, understand them to be God's people and offer them food.Understand them to be God's loving people, they are God's very loving and sweet children. I am feeding them. I am serving God. Just like if you love someone's child, then his mother will be very pleased, won't she? similarly, if you serve God's children, then God will be pleased. What a wonderful point this is! Cooked God's food, offered it to God and fed God's children with the prepared foods. When you eat yourself, then too think of it as God's "prasad" (partaking in the food offered and blessed by God). How very wonderful! "Tumhi nibedit bhojan karahin | Prabhu prasad pat bhooshan gharhin || (Manas 2/128/1) As discussed earlier, make everything an offering to the Lord; not just food. If you wear jewellery, offer it to God "Thakurji". Wear only those clothes that belong to Thakurji. Let all things be taken in as if it is "prasad" (offering to the Lord), then all things will get purified. Have you seen this or not, that when food is offered to Thakurji's as "prasad" and is later distributed to all, then every person will bring forth their hand to receive the "prasad". Even if the smallest portion is given, then too he will be happy. Whether he is a millionaire or a billionaire, he too will bring his hand forward, and if you give him a small piece of the "prasad", he will be happy. Is this person hungry for sweets? If some millionaire or a billionaire asks for "prasad" and if you tell him let us go to the market and I will buy it for you from the market, then he will not be happy. He will say, am I starved of sweets or what? I want "prasad". Now tell me the importance of "prasad"? It is Thakurji's (God's) "prasad" (offering to the Lord). Everything in the house belongs to the Lord. If you follow this, then I would like to share with you a very great point. Have mercy and simply do it, then it is very great thing and very beneficial. Place "tulsidal" (the sacred basil leaf) on all the money - wealth that you have at home. On all the jewellery, clothes on everything place "tulsidal." Even for the house, offer it. On all animals, place tulsidal. On all children, place "tulsidal" Now whose children are they? They are Thakurji's (God's) children.It is like magic. If you are able to do, then I will share, but do it from the heart, then it will be magical. Son is rebellious and does not listen. With a true heart, lift off the proprietary interest (sense of mine-ness) you have in him and say that he is not mine at all. He is only Thakurji's (God's). The son will become totally alright. Just as when food it offered to God it become sanctified and many great people revere it. Similarly, with a true heart, completely wipe off your proprietary interest and only consider him as belonging to Thakurji (God) then he will be purified. He will become sacred. Try it and see for yourself. The challenge is to completely lift off your proprietary interest. Just like another person's child, similar is this child. if he dies then too no affect on you. He is not our child, if he dies the it is Thakurji's, whereas Thakurji's never dies. If he dies here, then there he is born. He is never apart from Thakurji. By doing so, the son will be purified. It is the truth. Sense of mine-ness (mamta) itself is impurity. Sense of “mine-ness” (proprietary interest) is impurity. It is due to mine that there is impurity. If you give donation - charity, then have no relation with it. “Daatavyamiti yadaanam deeyatenupakaarine” (Gita 17/20) “Anupakaareene” does not mean that the other person does not do anything helpful. IT is an understanding that previously the person did nothing beneficial, and there is no expectation that he will oblige in the future. Give donation to such a one, with whom you have no self-interest. Give to such people. Do not keep a selfish relation with family members. Both will lead to the same, as in the end only one will remain. Serve where there is no sense of mine or where you serve there get rid of the feeling of mine. It will be the same thing. We are God’s. We live in His kingdom. We do His work. We receive his Prasad. And with his offering, we serve his children. I too am receiving his “Prasad”. This is true “Pamchaamrt” (Five Golden Principles). From today onwards, grab hold of these points. “Sarvabhaaven maam bhajati” and in all sentiments and feelings worship only the Lord, therefore have the sentiments that this body belongs to “Thakurji” (My Lord). I am doing my Lord’s work. Then you will be able to do a favor for the Lord that Maharaj! (Great One) I am doing your work. A Brahmin used to keep saying - daily I feed one Brahmin. He used to eat himself and have the sentiments that daily he is feeding a Brahmin. It is such a great thing! Similarly, the entire family and various families all belong to Thakurji (God). I am taking care of Thakurji’s family. Even Thakurji says that he is taking care of the family Brother! God will be touched that yes! It is true! He is taking care of my family. When there is no sense of mine-ness, when there is no attachment, then God says that He is taking care of my family.In all sentiments, let God’s work alone be done. This will turn into pure devotion “avyabhichaari bhakti” We want to take nothing, we have no sense of mine-ness. There is neither selfishness nor proprietary interest. Whether home members listen to you or not, whether they serve you or not, we have to serve Thakurji’s family. We have to serve him, Brother! If family members do not work, then we should be happy, it is a good thing! If they work and do everything according to our preference, then understand that our good deeds are getting exhausted. Therefore if they do nothing and further give us trouble and sorrow, then it is a good thing. Even if mother-in-law causes suffering, if daughter-in-law gives sorrow, if sister-in-law or any one give pain and sorrow then be happy, thinking we are greatly benefited. We have to serve, and if they give pain then we will be doubly benefited. On one hand there will be benefit of serving “seva” and if they give pain and sorrow then your sins will be reduced. When will suffering remain, tell me? Even on getting suffering, there will be joy. There will be no place remaining for sorrow and suffering. All roadways will be blocked, then that itself is “sarvavit”. Have you understood this well? If you are becoming happy and unhappy with this world, then you have not understood this well. We are living in ever bliss. We have not the least bit of unhappiness. God supports, protects and takes care of everyone. He takes care of all, then such a devotee of God does not experience any sorrow at all. They remain ever blissful, they remain so joyful that with their association you feel delighted and intoxicated. By remembering Thakurji (God), bondages break off. Simply by reciting the divine Name, by remembering the Lord, by listening to His divine plays (stories) sins are destroyed, He is that pure. “Pavitraanaam pavitram yo mangalaanaam cha mangalam" In essence what is the point? It is a small thing. “I am only God’s” not anyone elses. For serving I belong to the world, but for our own purpose, I am no one elses. I only belong to God, simply accept yourself as being God’s, then this house belongs to God, this kingdom belongs to God, this family belongs to God, the wealth and possessions belong to God, the work is God’s, the food is God’s everything will become God’s. This is the absolutely Truth.I am sharing based on my very experience. The child that the mother has accepted as her own, when he climbs into the mother’s lap then the mother is pleased and joyful. If he climbs from the back onto her shoulder, then too she laughs and if he intentionally pretends to cry ‘Um-Um-Um” the Maa smiles that look he is pretending with me. What is that action performed by a child that the mother does not like? The child is mine. Similarly being God’s if we do all work, then all our actions will become worship and adoration of God. What to speak of worship and adoration, it makes God pleased, happy. Whatever work you do, God continues to remain happy. He is my child. My child is playing. What delight! The point is only one, to become God’s. This is the truth. If I ask you that have you taken birth in this household knowingly? If you are living, then are you intentionally living? If knowingly you are living, then who would be dead? No one would die. If you are living in a healthy body, is it knowingly so? If you were knowingly living like this, then do not ever fall sick. Whatever strength and intelligence you have, has it been knowingly acquired? Then why get old? Don’t become dependent. But you are becoming dependent. Therefore this pride is your own, nothing else. Your are simply filled with pride. Therefore I am Thakurji’s (God’s). I am dependent on God. Whatever strength Thakurji (God) gives, that alone I do. How much work did Hanumanji do? When Ramji went to Lanka, he created a bridge and then crossed the bridge. But Hanumanji simply flew over to the other side. Whose strength does he have? The strength that Hanumanji has comes from Thakurji (the Lord). “Baar baar raghubeer sambhaari.” “prabisi nagar keeje sab kaaja. Hrdey raakhee kosalpur raja.” It comes in Valmiki Ramayan that Hanumanji roared that even if thousand Ravans come they cannot spoil anything of mine, I am servant of the Lord (Thakurji).The world is suffering due to pride. Therefore have mercy and leave the pride, offer it to God, that I am God’s. All our strength has to be applied in doing God’s work. “Tvadeeya vastu Govind tubhyameva samarpaye”, “Sarvabhaaven bhajati maam” - with all sentiments they worship and adore God. Divine Name recitation is adoration, chanting holy name is adoration, reciting various scriptures is worship and adoration, to listen, to share, is all worship. By “Sarvabhaavena bhajati”, getting up, sitting, eating, drinking, sleeping, waking up, all work is God’s work that we are doing. What an elevated thing this is. We have taken refuge in the Lord and we will do only His work. The work is not ours at all. This is not our house, therefore it is no our work. All work is Lord’s work. I have heard from saints, he who cannot regard anything as his own, neither the mind, nor the intellect, nor the body, nor the life breath, nor the senses, nor the house, nor the wealth. When all things belong to Thakurji (Lord), then wherever they live there is nothing but joy! Everything is given to the Lord. Therefore they remain ever blissful. We have heard one thing about a Saint. Saints are very unique. When they go to the market and see the various different sweet dishes that are displayed, fruits that are kept and stores that are well decorated. Wherever they see some great things, there they stand-by and in their mind say, Lord (Thakurji), please partake in this offering. Please take these sweets as an offering. Simply standing they blissfully offer it to the Lord. Similarly, you too offering everything to Thakurji, please accept this offering, then it all becomes an offering. You tell me, what is the difficulty in doing this? Then you too do this. Who is preventing you from doing so? Wherever you see anything wonderful, offering it to the Lord (Thakurji). Everything belongs to Thakurji. What should we do? We will simply rejoice. Now we have no work remaining. Now it is only Lord’s work, Lord’s Name, Lord’s contemplation, listening to Lord’s divine stories. What work is remaining for you to do? You are doing the Lord’s work. Lord is the master of all the work in this universe. By offering everything that belongs to the master at his lotus feet, how much do you have to exert, tell me? You tell me that this is mine, but for how many days? How many years will you continue to say that it is mine? As such it will eventually remain the Lord’s. Therefore while living, turn it over to Him from the heart, then it will be joyful! What an easy and what a deep well grounded point this is! Saints have said - “Ram naam ki sampada do anter tak dhoon | Yaa to gupatee baat hai kaho bataave koon" Who will tell such a great point? And how easy it is! What a high class point this is ! What a worriless, fearless, blissful point this is ! neither worry, nor fear, nor dejection, nor desire to live, nor desire to die. We have no desire whatsoever. May our desire be blended (one) with the Lord. Now however the Lord does, however he keeps us -
“Jaahi vidhi raakhe Ram, taahi vidhi rahiye |SitaRaam, SitaRaam, SitaRaam kahiye"
We have no demand, nor any wish. By this our troubles will be wiped out, and God will become pleased with us. By considering it as ours, there will be worries. It is my room. Certain things are lying there. Clothes are drying there. Someone will take them, then there will be worries. Now when it is all offered (turned over) to God, then what ecstacy ! If it goes away it is the Lord’s, if it remains it is the Lord’s ! Narayana! Narayana! Narayana!
From book in Hindi "Jeevan Upyogi Pravachan" by Swami Ramsukhdasji

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The only technique to learn something new
By James Altucher



I had a friend who wanted to get better at painting. But she thought she had to be in Paris, with all the conditions right. She never made it to Paris. Now she sits in a cubicle under fluorescent lights, filling out paperwork all day.
Someone stole $90 million from a company I was involved in. I'm a poor judge of people. The company collapsed.
Some things I can't learn. I tend to like people too much.
So it's hard for me to be a good judge of people, no matter how much I try. So I find other people who are good at judging people and I ask them to help me.
Don't force yourself to learn something if you don't want to or it's not a natural talent.
What's the role of talent? Very small. But you have to start with it. Talent is the seed of skill.
How do you know if you are talented? If you loved it when you were ten years old. If you dream about it. If you like to read about it. Read the below and you'll know what you are talented at.
Trust me when I say: everyone is talented at many things.
 This story is from James Altucher's website. He let us it after we asked nicely.In the past 20 years I've wanted to learn how to do some things really well. Writing, programming, business skills (leadership, sales, negotiating, decision-making), comedy, games.
So I developed a ten step technique for learning.
1. LOVE IT.
If you can't start with "love" then everyone who does love will beat everyone who "likes" or "hates".
This is a rule of the universe. The first humans who crossed the arctic tundra from Siberia to Alaska in -60 degree temperatures had to love it. The rest stayed in the East Africa Savannah.
The very first day I wrote a "Hello, World" computer program I dreamed about computers. I woke up at 4am to get back to the "computer lab" and make even bigger programs.
When I first started to write every day, I would write all day. I couldn't stop. And all I wanted to talk about with people were different authors.
When I was 10 years old I wrote a gossip column about all my fellow 5th graders. I read every Judy Blume book. I read everything I could. I loved it.
Most of my friends got bored with me and soon I was very lonely. Except when I was writing.
2. READ IT.
Bobby Fischer wasn't that good at chess. He had talent but nobody thought much of him.
So around the age of 12-13 he disappeared for a year. He did this later in his 20s.
But at 13 when he came back on the scene he was suddenly the best chessplayer in the US, won the US championship, and became the youngest grandmaster in the world.
How did he do it? He barely played at all during his year of wandering.
Instead he did two things:
a) he studied every game played in the prior century. In the 1800s.
When he came back on the scene he was known for playing all of these antiquated openings but he had improvements in each one. Nobody can figure out how to defeat these improvements.
In fact, the final game of the World Championship many years later, in 1972 when he was playing Spassky, he brought out his 1800s arsenal to become World Champion.
Spassky desperately needed to win to keep the match going. Fischer needed to draw to win the title.
Spassky started with a very modern attacking opening ("The Sicilian") But then around 13 moves in, all of the commentators watching gasped.
Fischer had subtly changed the opening into an old-fashioned very drawish 1800s opening called "The Scotch Game." Spassky didn't have a chance after that.
b) He learned enough Russian to read the Russian chess magazines. At the time, the top 20 players in the world were all Russian. The Americans didn't really have a chance.
So Fischer would study the Russian games while all of the Americans were sitting around with openings and styles the Russians already knew how to defeat.
Consequently, when Fischer competed in the US championship in the early 60s it was the first complete shutout, all wins and not a single draw.
Studying the history, studying the best players, is the key to being the best player. Even if you started off with average talent.
3. TRY IT. BUT NOT TOO HARD.
If you want to be a writer, or a businessman, or a programmer, you have to write a lot, start a lot of businesses, and program a lot of programs.
Things go wrong. This is why quantity is more important than quality at first.
The learning curve that we all travel is not built by accomplishments. It's only built by quantity.
If you see something 1000 times, you'll see more than the person who sees the same thing only ten times.
Don't forget the important rule: the secret of happiness is not "being great" - the secret is "growth".
If you only "try" you'll get to your level that is natural for you. But growth will stop and you won't be happy.
4. GET A TEACHER (PLUS THE 10X RULE).
If I try to learn Spanish on my own, I get nowhere. But when I go out (and now marry) someone who is from Argentina, I learn more Spanish.
With chess, writing, programming, business, I always find someone better than me, and I set a time each week to ask them tons of questions, have them give me assignments, look over my mistakes and tell me where I am wrong.
For everything you love, find a teacher and that makes you learn 10x faster.
In fact, everything I put on this list, makes you learn 10x faster. So if you do everything on this list you will learn 10 to the 10th power faster than anyone else.
That's how you become great at something.
5. STUDY THE HISTORY. STUDY THE PRESENT.
If you want to learn how to be a GREAT programmer (not just good enough to program an app but good enough to be GREAT, study machine language.
Study 1s and 0s. Study the history of the computer, learn how to make an operating system, and Fortran, Cobol, Pascal, Lisp, C, C , all the way through the modern languages of Python, etc.
If you want to write better, read great books from the 1800s. Read Hemingway and Virginia Woolf and the Beats, and the works that have withstood the test of time.
They have withstood the test of time. versus millions of other books, for a reason. They are the best in the world.
Then study the current criticism of those books to see what you have missed. This is just as important as the initial reading.
If you want to study business, read biographies of Rockefeller, Carnegie, the first exchange in Amsterdam, the junk-bond boom, the 90s, the financial bust. Every Depression. All the businesses that flourished in every depression.
Read "Zero to One" by Peter Thiel. Watch "The Profit" on CNBC. Read about Steve Jobs. Read about the downfall of Kodak in "The End of Power".
Don't read self-help business books. They are nothing. You are about to enter a great field, the field of innovation that has created modern society. Don't read the average books that came out last year.
Step up your game and read about the people and inventions that changed the world into what it is today.
Read how Henry Ford had to start three car companies to get it right and why "three" was the important number for him.
Read about why Ray Kroc's technique for franchising created the world's largest restaurant chain. Read how the Coca-Cola makes absolutely nothing but is the largest drink company in the world.
Write down the things you learn from each reading.
6. DO EASY PROJECTS FIRST.
Tony Robbins told me about when he was scared to death on his first major teaching job.
He had to teach a bunch of Marines how to improve their sharpshooting. "I had never shot a gun in my life," he said.
He studied quite a bit from professionals but then he came up with a technique that resulted in the best scores of any sharpshooting class before then.
He brought the target closer.
He put it just five feet from them. They all shot bullseyes. Then he moved it back bit by bit until it was the standard distance.
They were still shooting bullseyes.
Richard Branson started a magazine before he started an airline. Bill Gates wrote BASIC before his team wrote Windows.
E.L. James (and yes, I'm including her) wrote Twilight fan fiction, before she wrote "50 Shades of Grey".
Ernest Hemingway never thought he could write a novel. So he wrote dozens of short stories.
Programmers write "Hello, World" programs before they make their search engines.
Many chess grandmasters recommend you study the endgame first in chess (when there are few pieces left on the board) before you study the other parts of the game.
This gets you confidence, it teaches subtleties, it gives you greater feelings of growth and improvement - all steps on the path to success.
7. STUDY WHAT YOU DID.
The other day I threw everything out. Everything. I threw out all my books (donated). I threw out all my clothes.
I threw out old computers. I threw out plates I never used. I threw out sheets I would never have guests for. I threw out furniture (four book cases) and my TV and old papers and everything.
I wanted to clean up. And I did.
I found a novel I wrote in 1991. 24 years ago. It was horrible.
For the first time in those 24 years, I re-read it. I studied what I did wrong (character unrelatable. Plot too obvious. Deus ex machina all over the place).
Someone told me a story about Amy Schumer, one of my favorite comedians. She videotapes all her performances.
Then she goes back to her room and studies the performance second by second. "I should have paused another quarter-second here," she might say.
She wants to be the best at comedy. She studies her every performance.
When I play chess, if I lose, I run the game into the computer. I look at every move, what the computer suggests as better, I think about what I was thinking when I made the bad move, and so on.
A business I was recently invested in fell apart. It was painful for me. But I had to look at it and see what was wrong. Where did I make a mistake. At every level I went back and wrote what happened and where I might have helped better and what I missed.
If you aren't obsessed with your mistakes then you don't love the field enough to get better.
You ask lousy questions: "Why am I no good?" Instead of good questions: "What did I do wrong and how can I improve?"
When you consistently ask good questions about your own work, you become better than the people who freeze themselves with lousy questions.
Example: I hate watching myself after a TV appearance. I have never done it. So I will never get better at that.
8. YOU ARE THE AVERAGE OF THE FIVE PEOPLE AROUND YOU.
Look at every literary, art, and business scene. People seldom get better as individuals. They get better as groups.
The Beats: Jack Kerouac, Allen Ginsberg, William Burroughs and a dozen others.
The programmers: Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, Ted Leonsis, Paul Allen, Steve Wozniak and a dozen others all came out of the Homebrew Club
The art scene in the 50s: Jasper Johns, De Kooning, Pollack, etc all lived on the SAME STREET in downtown NYC.
YouTube, LinkedIn, Tesla, Palantir, and to some extent Facebook, and a dozen other companies came out of the so-called "PayPal mafia".
All of these people could've tinkered by themselves. But humans are tribal mammals. We need to work with groups to improve.
Find the best group, spend as much time with them, and as a "scene" you become THE scene.
You each challenge each other, compete with each other, love each other's work, become envious of each other, and ultimately take turns surpassing each other.
9. DO IT A LOT.
What you do every day matters much more than what you do once in awhile.
I had a friend who wanted to get better at painting. But she thought she had to be in Paris, with all the conditions right.
She never made it to Paris. Now she sits in a cubicle under fluorescent lights, filling out paperwork all day.
Write every day, network every day, play every day, live healthy every day.
Measure your life in the number of times you do things. When you die: are you 2 writing sessions old? Or are you 50,0000?
10. FIND YOUR EVIL PLAN.
Eventually the student passes the master.
The first hedge fund manager I worked for now hates me. I started my own fund and his fund went out of business. My evil plan was ultimately to be better than him.
But how?
After all of the above, you find your unique voice. And when you speak in that voice, the world hears something it has never heard before.
Your old teachers and friends might not want to hear that voice. But if you continue to be around people who love and respect you, then they will encourage that new voice.
There's that saying, "there are no new ideas." But there are.
There are all the ideas in the past combined with the new beautiful you. You're the butterfly.
Now it's your turn to teach, to mentor, to create, to innovate, to change the world. To make something nobody has ever seen before and perhaps will never see again.

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"kese btau me tumhy tum mery liye kon ho kese btau me tumhy tum dharkano ka geet ho jeewan ka tum sangeet ho tum zindagi tum bandagi tum roshni tum tazgi tum har khushi tum pyar ho preet ho manmeet ho needo me tum yado me tum saanso me tum aanho me tum tum ho meri har bat me tum ho din raat me tum subah me tum sham me tum soch me tum kaam me tum mery liye paana b tum mery liye khona b tum mery liye hasna b tum mery liye rona b tum or jaagna sona b tum jau kaha dekhu kahi tum ho ho waha tum ho wahi kese btau me tumhy tum bin to me kuch b nahi kese btau me tumhy tum mery liye kon ho kese btau ?????? yeh jo tumhara roop hy ye zindagi ki dhoop h chandan s tarsha hy badan behti hy jis me gaggan yeh shokhiyan ye mastiyan tum ko hawao se mili zulfen ghattao s mili honto p kaliyan khil gai ankho ko jheelen mil gai chehry me simti chandni awaz me h ragni heerni k jesa ang pholo k jesa rang h nadyo k jesi chaal h kiya hussun hy kia haal hy ye jism ki rangeeniyan jese hazaro titliyan bahon ki ye golaiyan aaho ki parchaiyan yeh nagriyan hen khuwab ki kese btau me tumhy halat dill e betaab ki kese btau me tum mery liye tum kon ho mery liye tum dharm ho tum hee ibadat ho meri tum he chahat ho meri tum hee mera armaan ho takta hu me hr pal jisy tum he wo tasveer ho tum hee takdeer ho tum hee sitara homera tum he nazara ho mera yu mery dhiyan me ho tum jese mujy ghairy ho tum poorab mr tum pakshin me tum uttar me tum dhakin me tum tum saary mery jeewan me tum har pal me tum hat chin me tum tum mery liye rasta b tum manzil b tum mery liye saahil b tum mery liye sagar b tum me dekhta bas tumko hu me janta bas tumko ho me maanta bas tum ko hu tum bee meri pehchan ho kese me btau tumhy mery liye devi ho tum mery liye bhgwan ho kese btau mery liye tum kon ho kese btau ? kese btau ?"

kese btau me tumhy tum mery liye kon ho 

kese btau me tumhy tum dharkano ka geet ho
jeewan ka tum sangeet ho 
tum zindagi tum bandagi
tum roshni tum tazgi
tum har khushi 
tum pyar ho preet ho manmeet ho
needo me tum yado me tum
saanso me tum aanho me tum
tum ho meri har bat me tum ho din raat me
tum subah me tum sham me tum 
soch me tum kaam me tum
mery liye paana b tum mery liye khona b tum
mery liye hasna b tum mery liye rona b tum
or jaagna sona b tum
jau kaha  dekhu kahi tum ho ho waha tum ho wahi
kese btau me tumhy tum bin to me kuch b nahi 
kese btau me tumhy tum mery liye kon ho 
kese btau ??????
yeh jo tumhara roop hy ye zindagi ki dhoop h 
chandan s tarsha hy badan behti hy jis me gaggan
yeh shokhiyan ye mastiyan tum ko hawao se mili 
zulfen ghattao s mili 
honto p kaliyan khil gai ankho ko jheelen mil gai 
chehry me simti chandni awaz me h ragni
heerni k jesa ang pholo k jesa rang h 
 nadyo k jesi chaal h 
kiya hussun hy kia haal hy 
ye jism ki rangeeniyan jese hazaro titliyan 
bahon ki ye golaiyan aaho ki parchaiyan
yeh nagriyan hen khuwab ki 
kese btau me tumhy halat dill e betaab ki
kese btau me tum mery liye tum kon ho 
mery liye tum dharm ho 
tum hee ibadat ho meri tum he chahat ho meri
tum hee mera armaan ho
takta hu me hr pal jisy tum he wo tasveer ho
tum hee takdeer ho tum hee sitara homera 
tum he nazara ho mera 
yu mery dhiyan me ho tum jese mujy ghairy ho tum
poorab mr tum pakshin me tum
uttar me tum dhakin me tum 
tum saary mery jeewan me tum
har pal me tum hat chin me tum 
tum mery liye rasta b tum manzil b tum 
mery liye saahil b tum mery liye sagar b tum 
me dekhta bas tumko hu me janta bas tumko ho 
me maanta bas tum ko hu 
tum bee meri pehchan ho 
kese me btau tumhy mery liye devi ho tum 

mery liye bhgwan ho 

kese btau mery liye tum kon ho 

kese btau ?
kese btau ?

#kesebtaumetumhy

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"Tum Kaisi Mohabbat karti Ho..!! Tum Jab Bhi Ghar Par Aati Ho Aur Sab Say Batain Karti Ho Mein Aout Say Parday ki Janaa'n Bus Tum Ko Dekhta Rehta Hoon Ik Tum Ko Dekhnay Ki Khatir Mein Kitna Pagal Hota Hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jab Darwazay Par Dastak Ho Ya Ghanti Phone Ki Bajti Ho Mein Chor K Sab Kuch Bhagta Hoon Aur Tum Ko Jo Na Paoon Tou Ji Bhar K Ronay Lagta Hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Mehfil Mein Kahin Bhi Jana Ho Kapron Ka Selection Kerna Ho Rang Bohat Say Samnay Bikhray Hoon Us Rang Pe Dil Aa Jata Hai Jo Rang K Tum Ko Bhata Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Rozana Apnay College Mein Kisi Aur Ka Lecture Suntay Hoay Ya Break K Khali Ghantay Mein dosti Say Batain Kertay Hoay Meray Dhiyan Mein Tum Aa Jati Ho Mein, Mein Nahin Rehta Phir Janan Mein Tum Mein Gum Ho Jata hoon Bus Khuwabon Mein Kho Jata Hoon Un Aankhon Mein Kho Jata Hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jis Chehray Par Bhi Nighah Paray Her Chehra Tum Sa Lagta Hai Wo Sham Ho Ya Ke Dhop Samey Sab Kitna Bhala Sa Lagta Hai Janay Ye Kaisa Nasha Hai Garmi Ka Tapta Mausam Bhi Jaray Ka Maheena Lagta Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Tum Jab Bhi Samnay Aati Ho Mein Tum Say Sunn'na Chahta Hoon Kash Kabhi Tum Ye Keh Do Tum Mujh Say Muhabbat Kerti Ho Tum Mujh Ko Bohat Hi Chahti Ho Lekin Janay Tum Kyun Chup Ho Yeh Soch K Dil Ghabrata Hai Aisa Tou Nahin Hai Na janan Sirf Meri Nazar Ka Dhoka Ho Tum Nay Mujh Ko Chaha Hi Na Ho Koi Aur Hi Dil Mein Rehta Ho Mein Tum Say Poochna Chahta hoon Mein Tum Say Kehna Chahta hoon Lekin Kuch Pooch Nahin Sakta Mana Ke Muhabbat Hai Phir Bhi Lab Apnay Khol Nahin Sakta Mein Larka Hoon Kaisay Keh Doon Mein Kaisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Mein Tum Say Ye Kaisay Pochoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho......!! Chup Chap See Mein Ho Jata Hoon Phir Dil Mein Apnay Kehta hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho...... tum kaisi mohabbat karti ho .????????????"

Tum Kaisi Mohabbat karti Ho..!! Tum Jab
Bhi Ghar Par Aati Ho Aur Sab Say Batain
Karti Ho Mein Aout Say Parday ki Janaa'n
Bus Tum Ko Dekhta Rehta Hoon Ik Tum Ko
Dekhnay Ki Khatir Mein Kitna Pagal Hota
Hoon
Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jab Darwazay Par
Dastak Ho Ya Ghanti Phone Ki Bajti Ho Mein
Chor K Sab Kuch Bhagta Hoon Aur Tum Ko Jo
Na Paoon Tou Ji Bhar K Ronay Lagta Hoon
Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Mehfil Mein Kahin
Bhi Jana Ho Kapron Ka Selection Kerna Ho
Rang Bohat Say Samnay Bikhray Hoon Us
Rang Pe Dil Aa Jata Hai Jo Rang K Tum Ko
Bhata Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon
Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Rozana
Apnay College Mein Kisi Aur Ka Lecture
Suntay Hoay Ya Break K Khali Ghantay Mein
dosti Say Batain Kertay Hoay Meray
Dhiyan Mein Tum Aa Jati Ho Mein, Mein
Nahin Rehta Phir Janan Mein Tum Mein Gum
Ho Jata hoon Bus Khuwabon Mein Kho Jata
Hoon Un Aankhon Mein Kho Jata Hoon Mein
Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jis Chehray Par Bhi
Nighah Paray Her Chehra Tum Sa Lagta Hai
Wo Sham Ho Ya Ke Dhop Samey Sab Kitna
Bhala Sa Lagta Hai Janay Ye Kaisa Nasha
Hai Garmi Ka Tapta Mausam Bhi Jaray Ka
Maheena Lagta Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta
Hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Tum
Jab Bhi Samnay Aati Ho Mein Tum Say
Sunn'na Chahta Hoon Kash Kabhi Tum Ye Keh
Do Tum Mujh Say Muhabbat Kerti Ho Tum
Mujh Ko Bohat Hi Chahti Ho Lekin Janay
Tum Kyun Chup Ho Yeh Soch K Dil Ghabrata
Hai Aisa Tou Nahin Hai Na janan Sirf Meri
Nazar Ka Dhoka Ho Tum Nay Mujh Ko Chaha
Hi Na Ho Koi Aur Hi Dil Mein Rehta Ho Mein
Tum Say Poochna Chahta hoon Mein Tum Say
Kehna Chahta hoon Lekin Kuch Pooch Nahin
Sakta Mana Ke Muhabbat Hai Phir Bhi Lab
Apnay Khol Nahin Sakta Mein Larka Hoon
Kaisay Keh Doon Mein Kaisi Muhabbat Kerta
Hoon Mein Tum Say Ye Kaisay Pochoon Tum
Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho......!! Chup Chap
See Mein Ho Jata Hoon Phir Dil Mein Apnay
Kehta hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon
Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho......
tum kaisi mohabbat karti ho .????????????

aryan_0625

Tum Kaisi Mohabbat karti Ho..!! Tum Jab
Bhi Ghar Par Aati Ho Aur Sab Say Batain
Karti Ho Mein Aout Say Parday ki Janaa'n
Bus Tum Ko Dekhta Rehta Hoon Ik Tum Ko
Dekhnay Ki Khatir Mein Kitna Pagal Hota
Hoon
Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jab Darwazay Par
Dastak Ho Ya Ghanti Phone Ki Bajti Ho Mein
Chor K Sab Kuch Bhagta Hoon Aur Tum Ko Jo
Na Paoon Tou Ji Bhar K Ronay Lagta Hoon
Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Mehfil Mein Kahin
Bhi Jana Ho Kapron Ka Selection Kerna Ho
Rang Bohat Say Samnay Bikhray Hoon Us
Rang Pe Dil Aa Jata Hai Jo Rang K Tum Ko
Bhata Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon
Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Rozana
Apnay College Mein Kisi Aur Ka Lecture
Suntay Hoay Ya Break K Khali Ghantay Mein
dosti Say Batain Kertay Hoay Meray
Dhiyan Mein Tum Aa Jati Ho Mein, Mein
Nahin Rehta Phir Janan Mein Tum Mein Gum
Ho Jata hoon Bus Khuwabon Mein Kho Jata
Hoon Un Aankhon Mein Kho Jata Hoon Mein
Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jis Chehray Par Bhi
Nighah Paray Her Chehra Tum Sa Lagta Hai
Wo Sham Ho Ya Ke Dhop Samey Sab Kitna
Bhala Sa Lagta Hai Janay Ye Kaisa Nasha
Hai Garmi Ka Tapta Mausam Bhi Jaray Ka
Maheena Lagta Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta
Hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Tum
Jab Bhi Samnay Aati Ho Mein Tum Say
Sunn'na Chahta Hoon Kash Kabhi Tum Ye Keh
Do Tum Mujh Say Muhabbat Kerti Ho Tum
Mujh Ko Bohat Hi Chahti Ho Lekin Janay
Tum Kyun Chup Ho Yeh Soch K Dil Ghabrata
Hai Aisa Tou Nahin Hai Na janan Sirf Meri
Nazar Ka Dhoka Ho Tum Nay Mujh Ko Chaha
Hi Na Ho Koi Aur Hi Dil Mein Rehta Ho Mein
Tum Say Poochna Chahta hoon Mein Tum Say
Kehna Chahta hoon Lekin Kuch Pooch Nahin
Sakta Mana Ke Muhabbat Hai Phir Bhi Lab
Apnay Khol Nahin Sakta Mein Larka Hoon
Kaisay Keh Doon Mein Kaisi Muhabbat Kerta
Hoon Mein Tum Say Ye Kaisay Pochoon Tum
Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho......!! Chup Chap
See Mein Ho Jata Hoon Phir Dil Mein Apnay
Kehta hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon
Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho......
tum kaisi mohabbat karti ho .????????????

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"HAR PAL EK EHSAAS HO TUM SAAHIL HU MAIN , SAAHIL KA ARMAAN HO TUM, ZINDAGI JEENA KA TARIKA TUM, HASNE KA SALEEKA HO TUM , JISE KABHI NA BHUL PAU WOH KHUSHI HO TUM, JISKE BINA NA DEKH PAU WOH ROSHNI HO TUM , DIL KI DHAKDAN HO TUM , AANKHON KI THANDAK HO TUM , MERA KHUDA HO TUM , MERA SAJDA HO TUM, MERI IBAADAT HO TUM MERI ZARURAT HO TUM, TUMSE ZINDAGI HAI TUMSE HE BANDAGI HAI, MERA HAR ALFAAZ HO TUM , MERA JEENA KA RAAZ HO TUM , MERA KHAYAL HO TUM MERA KHWAB HO TUM , MERI ZINDAGI KI PYARI SE HAAQEEQAT HO TUM , JEENE KI FAZILAT HO TUM, NAYAAB HO TUM , SHABAAB HO TUM, HASNE KI WAJAH HO TUM , GHAM MAIN RONE KI SAZA HO TUM, JISE BHUL NA PAU WOH YAAD HO TUM , MERE LIKHNE KA ANDAAZ HO TUM , MERA HAR NAMAAZ HO TUM MERI HAR POOJA HO TUM , KYA KAHU KYA NAHI HO TUM BUS YEHI KEHTA HU MAIN TUMHARA HOON AUR MERI HO TUM. I LOVE YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING C @ Saahil"

HAR PAL EK EHSAAS HO TUM 
SAAHIL HU MAIN , 
SAAHIL KA ARMAAN HO TUM, 
ZINDAGI JEENA KA TARIKA TUM,
HASNE KA SALEEKA HO TUM , 
JISE KABHI NA BHUL PAU WOH KHUSHI HO TUM,
JISKE BINA NA DEKH PAU WOH ROSHNI HO TUM , 
DIL KI DHAKDAN HO TUM ,
AANKHON KI THANDAK HO TUM ,  
MERA KHUDA HO TUM  , 
MERA SAJDA HO TUM,
 MERI IBAADAT HO TUM MERI ZARURAT HO TUM,
 TUMSE ZINDAGI HAI TUMSE HE BANDAGI HAI,
 MERA HAR ALFAAZ HO TUM ,
 MERA JEENA KA RAAZ HO TUM ,
 MERA KHAYAL HO TUM MERA KHWAB HO TUM ,
 MERI ZINDAGI KI PYARI SE HAAQEEQAT HO TUM ,
 JEENE KI FAZILAT HO TUM, NAYAAB HO TUM ,
 SHABAAB HO TUM, HASNE KI WAJAH HO TUM ,
 GHAM MAIN RONE KI SAZA HO TUM,
   JISE BHUL NA PAU WOH YAAD HO TUM ,
 MERE LIKHNE KA ANDAAZ HO TUM ,  
MERA HAR NAMAAZ HO TUM MERI HAR POOJA HO TUM ,
 KYA KAHU KYA NAHI HO TUM
BUS YEHI KEHTA HU MAIN TUMHARA HOON AUR MERI HO TUM. 
I LOVE YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING

C @ Saahil

HAR PAL EK EHSAAS HO TUM
SAAHIL HU MAIN ,
SAAHIL KA ARMAAN HO TUM,
ZINDAGI JEENA KA TARIKA TUM,
HASNE KA SALEEKA HO TUM ,
JISE KABHI NA BHUL PAU WOH KHUSHI HO TUM,
JISKE BINA NA DEKH PAU WOH ROSHNI HO TUM ,
DIL KI DHAKDAN HO TUM ,
AANKHON KI THANDAK HO TUM ,
MERA KHUDA HO TUM ,
MERA SAJDA HO TUM,
MERI IBAADAT HO TUM MERI ZARURAT HO TUM,
TUMSE ZINDAGI HAI TUMSE HE BANDAGI HAI,
MERA HAR ALFAAZ HO TUM ,
MERA JEENA KA RAAZ HO TUM ,
MERA KHAYAL HO TUM MERA KHWAB HO TUM ,
MERI ZINDAGI KI PYARI SE HAAQEEQAT HO TUM ,
JEENE KI FAZILAT HO TUM, NAYAAB HO TUM ,
SHABAAB HO TUM, HASNE KI WAJAH HO TUM ,
GHAM MAIN RONE KI SAZA HO TUM,
JISE BHUL NA PAU WOH YAAD HO TUM ,
MERE LIKHNE KA ANDAAZ HO TUM ,
MERA HAR NAMAAZ HO TUM MERI HAR POOJA HO TUM ,
KYA KAHU KYA NAHI HO TUM
BUS YEHI KEHTA HU MAIN TUMHARA HOON AUR MERI HO TUM.
I LOVE YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING

C @ Saahil

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Five Golden Principles
Wherever you live, there you are living in your home. The significance is not in living in your home, but if you live in God's kingdom then there is much significance and greatness. This home (kingdom) you have called your own. But this home was from the very beginning belonging to God only. Even right now it is God's and later on also it will remain God's. If you die, then surely this house will not go with you. It belongs to God only. Therefore from today onwards, accept that I live in God's home. Really speaking you are living in God's home. When you come to Haridwar the you say - Oh ! this is gateway to God's home. When you come to Vrindavan you say that this is the place where God engaged in His divine loving pastimes. When you go to Ayodhya then you say we have come to God's palace. Accept it as God's kingdom or God's home, then this very house that you live in will become Vrindavan. At all times let that thought prevail, that I am living in God's home, and we are his very dear ones that belong to him. From today onwards accept this. All of you, do not consider your home as belonging to you. Oh' It is God's home! We have considered it our home in the middle somewhere. Before it was God's, and later on it will be God's then in the middle how can it become ours? Simply for no reason you have put a stamp on it. There is a point that you must pay close attention to - whatever work you do, accept it as God's work and then do it. Whether it is washing your clothes, taking a bath. This body is also God's, therefore to serve God you are doing it's work. Eating and drinking is also God's work. Office work and business is also God's work. The Master of this entire world is God, therefore the master of all the bodies is also God.Therefore work related to this body and to this world can be whose work? It is God's work only! What a wonderful thing this is! We live in God's kingdom and we are doing His work - these are two points. Now the third point is - All the things that are in the house, they too belong to God only. If the house belongs to God and you belong to God then can the things belong to someone else? Mothers and sisters should want that they should take those things that belong to God and cook with them. In the mind must be the thought that Oh! it is for offering food to God that I am cooking this meal. Now offer the foods prepared to God and thereafter however many people that are in the house, understand them to be God's people and offer them food.Understand them to be God's loving people, they are God's very loving and sweet children. I am feeding them. I am serving God. Just like if you love someone's child, then his mother will be very pleased, won't she? similarly, if you serve God's children, then God will be pleased. What a wonderful point this is! Cooked God's food, offered it to God and fed God's children with the prepared foods. When you eat yourself, then too think of it as God's "prasad" (partaking in the food offered and blessed by God). How very wonderful! "Tumhi nibedit bhojan karahin | Prabhu prasad pat bhooshan gharhin || (Manas 2/128/1) As discussed earlier, make everything an offering to the Lord; not just food. If you wear jewellery, offer it to God "Thakurji". Wear only those clothes that belong to Thakurji. Let all things be taken in as if it is "prasad" (offering to the Lord), then all things will get purified. Have you seen this or not, that when food is offered to Thakurji's as "prasad" and is later distributed to all, then every person will bring forth their hand to receive the "prasad". Even if the smallest portion is given, then too he will be happy. Whether he is a millionaire or a billionaire, he too will bring his hand forward, and if you give him a small piece of the "prasad", he will be happy. Is this person hungry for sweets? If some millionaire or a billionaire asks for "prasad" and if you tell him let us go to the market and I will buy it for you from the market, then he will not be happy. He will say, am I starved of sweets or what? I want "prasad". Now tell me the importance of "prasad"? It is Thakurji's (God's) "prasad" (offering to the Lord). Everything in the house belongs to the Lord. If you follow this, then I would like to share with you a very great point. Have mercy and simply do it, then it is very great thing and very beneficial. Place "tulsidal" (the sacred basil leaf) on all the money - wealth that you have at home. On all the jewellery, clothes on everything place "tulsidal." Even for the house, offer it. On all animals, place tulsidal. On all children, place "tulsidal" Now whose children are they? They are Thakurji's (God's) children.It is like magic. If you are able to do, then I will share, but do it from the heart, then it will be magical. Son is rebellious and does not listen. With a true heart, lift off the proprietary interest (sense of mine-ness) you have in him and say that he is not mine at all. He is only Thakurji's (God's). The son will become totally alright. Just as when food it offered to God it become sanctified and many great people revere it. Similarly, with a true heart, completely wipe off your proprietary interest and only consider him as belonging to Thakurji (God) then he will be purified. He will become sacred. Try it and see for yourself. The challenge is to completely lift off your proprietary interest. Just like another person's child, similar is this child. if he dies then too no affect on you. He is not our child, if he dies the it is Thakurji's, whereas Thakurji's never dies. If he dies here, then there he is born. He is never apart from Thakurji. By doing so, the son will be purified. It is the truth. Sense of mine-ness (mamta) itself is impurity. Sense of “mine-ness” (proprietary interest) is impurity. It is due to mine that there is impurity. If you give donation - charity, then have no relation with it. “Daatavyamiti yadaanam deeyatenupakaarine” (Gita 17/20) “Anupakaareene” does not mean that the other person does not do anything helpful. IT is an understanding that previously the person did nothing beneficial, and there is no expectation that he will oblige in the future. Give donation to such a one, with whom you have no self-interest. Give to such people. Do not keep a selfish relation with family members. Both will lead to the same, as in the end only one will remain. Serve where there is no sense of mine or where you serve there get rid of the feeling of mine. It will be the same thing. We are God’s. We live in His kingdom. We do His work. We receive his Prasad. And with his offering, we serve his children. I too am receiving his “Prasad”. This is true “Pamchaamrt” (Five Golden Principles). From today onwards, grab hold of these points. “Sarvabhaaven maam bhajati” and in all sentiments and feelings worship only the Lord, therefore have the sentiments that this body belongs to “Thakurji” (My Lord). I am doing my Lord’s work. Then you will be able to do a favor for the Lord that Maharaj! (Great One) I am doing your work. A Brahmin used to keep saying - daily I feed one Brahmin. He used to eat himself and have the sentiments that daily he is feeding a Brahmin. It is such a great thing! Similarly, the entire family and various families all belong to Thakurji (God). I am taking care of Thakurji’s family. Even Thakurji says that he is taking care of the family Brother! God will be touched that yes! It is true! He is taking care of my family. When there is no sense of mine-ness, when there is no attachment, then God says that He is taking care of my family.In all sentiments, let God’s work alone be done. This will turn into pure devotion “avyabhichaari bhakti” We want to take nothing, we have no sense of mine-ness. There is neither selfishness nor proprietary interest. Whether home members listen to you or not, whether they serve you or not, we have to serve Thakurji’s family. We have to serve him, Brother! If family members do not work, then we should be happy, it is a good thing! If they work and do everything according to our preference, then understand that our good deeds are getting exhausted. Therefore if they do nothing and further give us trouble and sorrow, then it is a good thing. Even if mother-in-law causes suffering, if daughter-in-law gives sorrow, if sister-in-law or any one give pain and sorrow then be happy, thinking we are greatly benefited. We have to serve, and if they give pain then we will be doubly benefited. On one hand there will be benefit of serving “seva” and if they give pain and sorrow then your sins will be reduced. When will suffering remain, tell me? Even on getting suffering, there will be joy. There will be no place remaining for sorrow and suffering. All roadways will be blocked, then that itself is “sarvavit”. Have you understood this well? If you are becoming happy and unhappy with this world, then you have not understood this well. We are living in ever bliss. We have not the least bit of unhappiness. God supports, protects and takes care of everyone. He takes care of all, then such a devotee of God does not experience any sorrow at all. They remain ever blissful, they remain so joyful that with their association you feel delighted and intoxicated. By remembering Thakurji (God), bondages break off. Simply by reciting the divine Name, by remembering the Lord, by listening to His divine plays (stories) sins are destroyed, He is that pure. “Pavitraanaam pavitram yo mangalaanaam cha mangalam" In essence what is the point? It is a small thing. “I am only God’s” not anyone elses. For serving I belong to the world, but for our own purpose, I am no one elses. I only belong to God, simply accept yourself as being God’s, then this house belongs to God, this kingdom belongs to God, this family belongs to God, the wealth and possessions belong to God, the work is God’s, the food is God’s everything will become God’s. This is the absolutely Truth.I am sharing based on my very experience. The child that the mother has accepted as her own, when he climbs into the mother’s lap then the mother is pleased and joyful. If he climbs from the back onto her shoulder, then too she laughs and if he intentionally pretends to cry ‘Um-Um-Um” the Maa smiles that look he is pretending with me. What is that action performed by a child that the mother does not like? The child is mine. Similarly being God’s if we do all work, then all our actions will become worship and adoration of God. What to speak of worship and adoration, it makes God pleased, happy. Whatever work you do, God continues to remain happy. He is my child. My child is playing. What delight! The point is only one, to become God’s. This is the truth. If I ask you that have you taken birth in this household knowingly? If you are living, then are you intentionally living? If knowingly you are living, then who would be dead? No one would die. If you are living in a healthy body, is it knowingly so? If you were knowingly living like this, then do not ever fall sick. Whatever strength and intelligence you have, has it been knowingly acquired? Then why get old? Don’t become dependent. But you are becoming dependent. Therefore this pride is your own, nothing else. Your are simply filled with pride. Therefore I am Thakurji’s (God’s). I am dependent on God. Whatever strength Thakurji (God) gives, that alone I do. How much work did Hanumanji do? When Ramji went to Lanka, he created a bridge and then crossed the bridge. But Hanumanji simply flew over to the other side. Whose strength does he have? The strength that Hanumanji has comes from Thakurji (the Lord). “Baar baar raghubeer sambhaari.” “prabisi nagar keeje sab kaaja. Hrdey raakhee kosalpur raja.” It comes in Valmiki Ramayan that Hanumanji roared that even if thousand Ravans come they cannot spoil anything of mine, I am servant of the Lord (Thakurji).The world is suffering due to pride. Therefore have mercy and leave the pride, offer it to God, that I am God’s. All our strength has to be applied in doing God’s work. “Tvadeeya vastu Govind tubhyameva samarpaye”, “Sarvabhaaven bhajati maam” - with all sentiments they worship and adore God. Divine Name recitation is adoration, chanting holy name is adoration, reciting various scriptures is worship and adoration, to listen, to share, is all worship. By “Sarvabhaavena bhajati”, getting up, sitting, eating, drinking, sleeping, waking up, all work is God’s work that we are doing. What an elevated thing this is. We have taken refuge in the Lord and we will do only His work. The work is not ours at all. This is not our house, therefore it is no our work. All work is Lord’s work. I have heard from saints, he who cannot regard anything as his own, neither the mind, nor the intellect, nor the body, nor the life breath, nor the senses, nor the house, nor the wealth. When all things belong to Thakurji (Lord), then wherever they live there is nothing but joy! Everything is given to the Lord. Therefore they remain ever blissful. We have heard one thing about a Saint. Saints are very unique. When they go to the market and see the various different sweet dishes that are displayed, fruits that are kept and stores that are well decorated. Wherever they see some great things, there they stand-by and in their mind say, Lord (Thakurji), please partake in this offering. Please take these sweets as an offering. Simply standing they blissfully offer it to the Lord. Similarly, you too offering everything to Thakurji, please accept this offering, then it all becomes an offering. You tell me, what is the difficulty in doing this? Then you too do this. Who is preventing you from doing so? Wherever you see anything wonderful, offering it to the Lord (Thakurji). Everything belongs to Thakurji. What should we do? We will simply rejoice. Now we have no work remaining. Now it is only Lord’s work, Lord’s Name, Lord’s contemplation, listening to Lord’s divine stories. What work is remaining for you to do? You are doing the Lord’s work. Lord is the master of all the work in this universe. By offering everything that belongs to the master at his lotus feet, how much do you have to exert, tell me? You tell me that this is mine, but for how many days? How many years will you continue to say that it is mine? As such it will eventually remain the Lord’s. Therefore while living, turn it over to Him from the heart, then it will be joyful! What an easy and what a deep well grounded point this is! Saints have said - “Ram naam ki sampada do anter tak dhoon | Yaa to gupatee baat hai kaho bataave koon" Who will tell such a great point? And how easy it is! What a high class point this is ! What a worriless, fearless, blissful point this is ! neither worry, nor fear, nor dejection, nor desire to live, nor desire to die. We have no desire whatsoever. May our desire be blended (one) with the Lord. Now however the Lord does, however he keeps us -
“Jaahi vidhi raakhe Ram, taahi vidhi rahiye |SitaRaam, SitaRaam, SitaRaam kahiye"
We have no demand, nor any wish. By this our troubles will be wiped out, and God will become pleased with us. By considering it as ours, there will be worries. It is my room. Certain things are lying there. Clothes are drying there. Someone will take them, then there will be worries. Now when it is all offered (turned over) to God, then what ecstacy ! If it goes away it is the Lord’s, if it remains it is the Lord’s ! Narayana! Narayana! Narayana!
From book in Hindi "Jeevan Upyogi Pravachan" by Swami Ramsukhdasji

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The only technique to learn something new
By James Altucher



I had a friend who wanted to get better at painting. But she thought she had to be in Paris, with all the conditions right. She never made it to Paris. Now she sits in a cubicle under fluorescent lights, filling out paperwork all day.
Someone stole $90 million from a company I was involved in. I'm a poor judge of people. The company collapsed.
Some things I can't learn. I tend to like people too much.
So it's hard for me to be a good judge of people, no matter how much I try. So I find other people who are good at judging people and I ask them to help me.
Don't force yourself to learn something if you don't want to or it's not a natural talent.
What's the role of talent? Very small. But you have to start with it. Talent is the seed of skill.
How do you know if you are talented? If you loved it when you were ten years old. If you dream about it. If you like to read about it. Read the below and you'll know what you are talented at.
Trust me when I say: everyone is talented at many things.
 This story is from James Altucher's website. He let us it after we asked nicely.In the past 20 years I've wanted to learn how to do some things really well. Writing, programming, business skills (leadership, sales, negotiating, decision-making), comedy, games.
So I developed a ten step technique for learning.
1. LOVE IT.
If you can't start with "love" then everyone who does love will beat everyone who "likes" or "hates".
This is a rule of the universe. The first humans who crossed the arctic tundra from Siberia to Alaska in -60 degree temperatures had to love it. The rest stayed in the East Africa Savannah.
The very first day I wrote a "Hello, World" computer program I dreamed about computers. I woke up at 4am to get back to the "computer lab" and make even bigger programs.
When I first started to write every day, I would write all day. I couldn't stop. And all I wanted to talk about with people were different authors.
When I was 10 years old I wrote a gossip column about all my fellow 5th graders. I read every Judy Blume book. I read everything I could. I loved it.
Most of my friends got bored with me and soon I was very lonely. Except when I was writing.
2. READ IT.
Bobby Fischer wasn't that good at chess. He had talent but nobody thought much of him.
So around the age of 12-13 he disappeared for a year. He did this later in his 20s.
But at 13 when he came back on the scene he was suddenly the best chessplayer in the US, won the US championship, and became the youngest grandmaster in the world.
How did he do it? He barely played at all during his year of wandering.
Instead he did two things:
a) he studied every game played in the prior century. In the 1800s.
When he came back on the scene he was known for playing all of these antiquated openings but he had improvements in each one. Nobody can figure out how to defeat these improvements.
In fact, the final game of the World Championship many years later, in 1972 when he was playing Spassky, he brought out his 1800s arsenal to become World Champion.
Spassky desperately needed to win to keep the match going. Fischer needed to draw to win the title.
Spassky started with a very modern attacking opening ("The Sicilian") But then around 13 moves in, all of the commentators watching gasped.
Fischer had subtly changed the opening into an old-fashioned very drawish 1800s opening called "The Scotch Game." Spassky didn't have a chance after that.
b) He learned enough Russian to read the Russian chess magazines. At the time, the top 20 players in the world were all Russian. The Americans didn't really have a chance.
So Fischer would study the Russian games while all of the Americans were sitting around with openings and styles the Russians already knew how to defeat.
Consequently, when Fischer competed in the US championship in the early 60s it was the first complete shutout, all wins and not a single draw.
Studying the history, studying the best players, is the key to being the best player. Even if you started off with average talent.
3. TRY IT. BUT NOT TOO HARD.
If you want to be a writer, or a businessman, or a programmer, you have to write a lot, start a lot of businesses, and program a lot of programs.
Things go wrong. This is why quantity is more important than quality at first.
The learning curve that we all travel is not built by accomplishments. It's only built by quantity.
If you see something 1000 times, you'll see more than the person who sees the same thing only ten times.
Don't forget the important rule: the secret of happiness is not "being great" - the secret is "growth".
If you only "try" you'll get to your level that is natural for you. But growth will stop and you won't be happy.
4. GET A TEACHER (PLUS THE 10X RULE).
If I try to learn Spanish on my own, I get nowhere. But when I go out (and now marry) someone who is from Argentina, I learn more Spanish.
With chess, writing, programming, business, I always find someone better than me, and I set a time each week to ask them tons of questions, have them give me assignments, look over my mistakes and tell me where I am wrong.
For everything you love, find a teacher and that makes you learn 10x faster.
In fact, everything I put on this list, makes you learn 10x faster. So if you do everything on this list you will learn 10 to the 10th power faster than anyone else.
That's how you become great at something.
5. STUDY THE HISTORY. STUDY THE PRESENT.
If you want to learn how to be a GREAT programmer (not just good enough to program an app but good enough to be GREAT, study machine language.
Study 1s and 0s. Study the history of the computer, learn how to make an operating system, and Fortran, Cobol, Pascal, Lisp, C, C , all the way through the modern languages of Python, etc.
If you want to write better, read great books from the 1800s. Read Hemingway and Virginia Woolf and the Beats, and the works that have withstood the test of time.
They have withstood the test of time. versus millions of other books, for a reason. They are the best in the world.
Then study the current criticism of those books to see what you have missed. This is just as important as the initial reading.
If you want to study business, read biographies of Rockefeller, Carnegie, the first exchange in Amsterdam, the junk-bond boom, the 90s, the financial bust. Every Depression. All the businesses that flourished in every depression.
Read "Zero to One" by Peter Thiel. Watch "The Profit" on CNBC. Read about Steve Jobs. Read about the downfall of Kodak in "The End of Power".
Don't read self-help business books. They are nothing. You are about to enter a great field, the field of innovation that has created modern society. Don't read the average books that came out last year.
Step up your game and read about the people and inventions that changed the world into what it is today.
Read how Henry Ford had to start three car companies to get it right and why "three" was the important number for him.
Read about why Ray Kroc's technique for franchising created the world's largest restaurant chain. Read how the Coca-Cola makes absolutely nothing but is the largest drink company in the world.
Write down the things you learn from each reading.
6. DO EASY PROJECTS FIRST.
Tony Robbins told me about when he was scared to death on his first major teaching job.
He had to teach a bunch of Marines how to improve their sharpshooting. "I had never shot a gun in my life," he said.
He studied quite a bit from professionals but then he came up with a technique that resulted in the best scores of any sharpshooting class before then.
He brought the target closer.
He put it just five feet from them. They all shot bullseyes. Then he moved it back bit by bit until it was the standard distance.
They were still shooting bullseyes.
Richard Branson started a magazine before he started an airline. Bill Gates wrote BASIC before his team wrote Windows.
E.L. James (and yes, I'm including her) wrote Twilight fan fiction, before she wrote "50 Shades of Grey".
Ernest Hemingway never thought he could write a novel. So he wrote dozens of short stories.
Programmers write "Hello, World" programs before they make their search engines.
Many chess grandmasters recommend you study the endgame first in chess (when there are few pieces left on the board) before you study the other parts of the game.
This gets you confidence, it teaches subtleties, it gives you greater feelings of growth and improvement - all steps on the path to success.
7. STUDY WHAT YOU DID.
The other day I threw everything out. Everything. I threw out all my books (donated). I threw out all my clothes.
I threw out old computers. I threw out plates I never used. I threw out sheets I would never have guests for. I threw out furniture (four book cases) and my TV and old papers and everything.
I wanted to clean up. And I did.
I found a novel I wrote in 1991. 24 years ago. It was horrible.
For the first time in those 24 years, I re-read it. I studied what I did wrong (character unrelatable. Plot too obvious. Deus ex machina all over the place).
Someone told me a story about Amy Schumer, one of my favorite comedians. She videotapes all her performances.
Then she goes back to her room and studies the performance second by second. "I should have paused another quarter-second here," she might say.
She wants to be the best at comedy. She studies her every performance.
When I play chess, if I lose, I run the game into the computer. I look at every move, what the computer suggests as better, I think about what I was thinking when I made the bad move, and so on.
A business I was recently invested in fell apart. It was painful for me. But I had to look at it and see what was wrong. Where did I make a mistake. At every level I went back and wrote what happened and where I might have helped better and what I missed.
If you aren't obsessed with your mistakes then you don't love the field enough to get better.
You ask lousy questions: "Why am I no good?" Instead of good questions: "What did I do wrong and how can I improve?"
When you consistently ask good questions about your own work, you become better than the people who freeze themselves with lousy questions.
Example: I hate watching myself after a TV appearance. I have never done it. So I will never get better at that.
8. YOU ARE THE AVERAGE OF THE FIVE PEOPLE AROUND YOU.
Look at every literary, art, and business scene. People seldom get better as individuals. They get better as groups.
The Beats: Jack Kerouac, Allen Ginsberg, William Burroughs and a dozen others.
The programmers: Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, Ted Leonsis, Paul Allen, Steve Wozniak and a dozen others all came out of the Homebrew Club
The art scene in the 50s: Jasper Johns, De Kooning, Pollack, etc all lived on the SAME STREET in downtown NYC.
YouTube, LinkedIn, Tesla, Palantir, and to some extent Facebook, and a dozen other companies came out of the so-called "PayPal mafia".
All of these people could've tinkered by themselves. But humans are tribal mammals. We need to work with groups to improve.
Find the best group, spend as much time with them, and as a "scene" you become THE scene.
You each challenge each other, compete with each other, love each other's work, become envious of each other, and ultimately take turns surpassing each other.
9. DO IT A LOT.
What you do every day matters much more than what you do once in awhile.
I had a friend who wanted to get better at painting. But she thought she had to be in Paris, with all the conditions right.
She never made it to Paris. Now she sits in a cubicle under fluorescent lights, filling out paperwork all day.
Write every day, network every day, play every day, live healthy every day.
Measure your life in the number of times you do things. When you die: are you 2 writing sessions old? Or are you 50,0000?
10. FIND YOUR EVIL PLAN.
Eventually the student passes the master.
The first hedge fund manager I worked for now hates me. I started my own fund and his fund went out of business. My evil plan was ultimately to be better than him.
But how?
After all of the above, you find your unique voice. And when you speak in that voice, the world hears something it has never heard before.
Your old teachers and friends might not want to hear that voice. But if you continue to be around people who love and respect you, then they will encourage that new voice.
There's that saying, "there are no new ideas." But there are.
There are all the ideas in the past combined with the new beautiful you. You're the butterfly.
Now it's your turn to teach, to mentor, to create, to innovate, to change the world. To make something nobody has ever seen before and perhaps will never see again.

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