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Breakups aren't easy and will never be easy. Those who are going through it know how difficult it is & those who have gone through it knew how difficult it was. But those who have gone through it also know that Break up was not as difficult as they thought. When you are going through a break up you feel a lot of emotions especially the sad ones going in your mind. You get self doubts, lack of confidence, you not only question your ownself but also your relationships with others. Break up not only affect your mind, your heart, your life but also your other relationships. I know how it feels , how much it hurts when you love someone with your whole heart & they leave you. It isn't easy to accept the fact that one of the most important person of your life has left you. But you should remember that he/she is only "one of the" most important person of your life & not the "only" important person of your life. You are not just linked to one person, you have another people in your life too & you have responsibilities towards them also. You just can't isolate yourself from everyone just because of one person. That's completely wrong. I understand that at the time of break up you are emotionally too weak to handle things but that's the correct time to know yourself, your true worth, your true strength. You are allowed to cry, to share your feelings with your best friend but remember you are definitely not allowed to hurt yourself physically and emotionally. Don't be your own enemy. & If you do something like this you will regret for sure. We learn from mistakes it's true but some mistakes aren't meant to be attempted. Remember movies & series only shows those things which can't happen in real life. Actual life is way far different from movies. Actors are just doing their job. Even they don't do movie things in their real lives. So keep movies away from your real life. Never exploit yourself under the influence of any thing. You need to control your emotions and not to be controlled by them. & Never ever ask for sympathy. Sympathy only weakens you. At that time you don't need sympathy but empathy. You need to empathize. Empathize your family and friends' side. How were they feeling when you distanced yourself from them just because of one person. They don't deserve that.
They also loved you & still loving you whole heartedly & you aren't supposed to treat them like this. I know you are hurt but that doesn't give you the right to hurt others. Yes you are suffering but you aren't meant to let others suffer too. People come & go, that's the reality of life. But life doesn't stop for anyone. Time is a healer and it will heal you too. You aren't weak, you can do anything if you make up your mind. Maybe not now, but within few days or months you will be more stronger than today. You just need some patience. Remember break ups aren't END they're just an interval/ a break from a person, from a relationship. It's the time to give some attention to yourself, to your family & to your friends. It's the time to compensate all the attention that you gave just to one person.You are able to overcome from this phase only when you are ready to give your 100%. When you are 100% determined to let yourself free from this suffering. & Remember there is a huge difference between waiting & suffering. You are allowed to wait but not to suffer. You need self care, not to be selfish. I am not asking you to get up & to be instantly happy, things take time but at least you can try to be happy. I am not saying to force yourself for anything but just don't let any emotion control you. Take baby steps to keep yourself happy & to make yourself stronger. We easily get life but aren't allowed to easily give up on it. Because it's not only your life, many people are attached to you & somehow their life also get affected when you are affected. Don't be like that one person who left you & because of whom you are suffering right now.
Never do with your loved ones what your ex did with you. Don't be a heartless & self destructive person. Break ups are just an end of a relationship but a beginning of a new You, a stronger you, a better you, a more mature you. It doesn't mean that you have to be serious,be the real you but just be mature enough to handle things more wisely, more smartly. & Then finally you will learn how to value yourself. & Once you learnt this you will automatically find your true partner who will value the real you. Who will stand by you no matter how difficult it is to be with you. You are more stronger than you think. Just don't let yourself suffer. You don't deserve that. Getting hurt or being loved both depends on you. Don't punish yourself & your loved ones for someone else's deeds. Stay strong.

{ Kindly ignore grammatical errors 🙏}

I don't know whether it will help you or not but I tried my best to help you all who are going through break up right now...😇

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Do you remember the first time we kiss under the tree 
Do you even remember the first time we had sex you was wearing that pink dress and i was so impressed 
It is so nice to see an emperor in love with an empress

do you remember nishi ignatius Indeevar Joshi Bina Babi Namita Writer Nidhi Dehru

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Familiarity Familiarity Familiarity Familiarity. Lol I sound like a radio announcer in this case. 

However what I want to really talk about today is this statement we commonly know or hear people say"familiarity breeds contempt".

I personally have fallen out of many relationships because of this one word familiarity which is very ironical being that in a relationship we all have to be familiar with each other as we get to know each other and become intimate with each other.

Then why do we truly say "familiarity breeds contempt" if that be the case?

When we say familiarity breeds contempt what people actually mean here is "taking people for granted" is what truly breeds contempt and not familiarity.

Being familiar with people is a normal part of all relationships since it breeds connection and intimacy among us humans. 

What actually breeds contempt between people is overfamiliarity or what I rather call "the taking people for granted syndrome".

That is, we get to a point where our quest for Love has already been achieved and then it now becomes a "me" committee. 

A cycle of I already know you well so do I dont really care about making you happy or taking your needs into consideration anymore.  

Those are the things that actually breeds contempt in a relationship. 

Hence get the difference and begin to take on a new path if you see that you had been going down the wrong one.

And before you accept a thought to be true try to rexamine its basis from which it was established.

I read an article today on the familiarity principle of attraction by Deborah Wards and it really got me stirred up and impacted.

What she basically said what a man or woman is more familiar too that he will attract in relationships

Just like the case of a lady or guy who grew up with an alcoholic Parent there is a high probability that you will attract mostly alcoholics into your life mainly because that's what you were used to while growing up.

The only and most important way to break out of this is to first of all determine the kind of people or persons you would want in your life and then you will see yourself  begin to attract such people once you have gotten your mind made up. You must be deliberate about it and not just wish.

Persist in going after what you Love and also begin by loving yourself so that you can be ready to receive and sustain the Love you will receive from the Father and you can in turn share it with others.

I'm Winnie making impact.

I help singles lead godly healthy relationship.

I Write, Speak and Advocate.

#Famililarity
#Winniemakingimpact.

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Through the window of transience
Or through the window of endurance?
Through which window should I peep?

For if I gaze at you through the window of transience
You look like an ephemeral blessing
But if I gaze at you through the window of endurance
You look like an eternal malediction.

Or should I shut the window
And sauter towards the door
To let you come into my heart at one blow
So that I dont hage to gaze at you
Oftentime from faraway
Through my heart's window.
                                ~PP

 

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I need A hand to pick me up when I fall.
I need,
A hug to take away my fear.
I need,
An eyesight who can see inside my soul.
I need,
An ear to hear my unsaid words.
I need,
A person in front of whom,
 I am I,
Neither pretending, Nor worrying,
Because He is the one,
for whom I am the one.

#ineed#ineed

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