How to be a 'Man' When she vents out about her abuser, don't attack her with, "Not all men". She knows that. Just listen for once. If and when not all men, then don't jump to defend the rest. When he cries for a broken rib or probably broken love, don't tell him, "Boys don't cry" or, "Don't cry like a girl". Let him be a man and cry, and if possible, learn. When your wife is going to work,
