Possessiveness: love or restriction? Nowadays people just to hide their jealousy name it as "possessiveness" What exactly being possessive is? Stopping the person whom you love just for your satisfaction and happiness. People name "possessiveness" as "caring." How? I mean how? Caring is setting the person free and giving the statement with firm believe "Do what you wish if anything happened I'm behind you, with you and for you."I understand sometimes you need to be restrictive but should it be everytime? No!!! Lets take an example. Suppose you have bird and you caged it and provide her with everything, every happiness that you have. But if it got an opportunity to escape it will do before your lash winks, before your heart beats or even before you think. This is how restriction is. Suppose you have dog you tied belt around to manage it, (here cage is missing) that belt or you can say "bond." After few days remove that Belt. He'll leave? No!! Despite having all the opportunities he'll opt for you, Even if you left him somewhere he'll try his best to reach you. Thats how love is, you need to form a bond not restrictions. Greater the bond greatest would be your love, greater the restriction lesser would be attachment. Where there is love no restrictions exist, Where there is restriction love cannot survive #formbondsnotrestrictions
