A girl's letter to her future husband Read the caption ♥️ Dear future hubby, I know you are scared of marriage. And trust me, I am shit scared as well. I remember that childhood was the only time when I wanted to get married, the time when marriage meant dressing up pretty and getting all the gifts. But then 1 grew up and realized that it also involves me leaving my family, my home, and my everything behind to go and live with another man. And trust me, I started hating this idea of marriage. It's so unfair on us girls. And if you can't accept that it's unfair, then you can soon expect a divorce. Haha, got scared? Well, it was just a hint of what wild storm you will be married to. But don't worry, I am not going to ask you to leave your parents just because I had to. I am not going to snatch your family away from you. Al I want is that you respect my sacrifice in this because one of us had to, and I did that. Now let's move to married us, shall we? Let me clear one thing first. Marriage will change many things, but it won't change the fact that I will always be my own person and that I will always have my own life. If you want a girl who will say we are two bodies but one soul, one life, one this, one that, one blah, one blah more, then sorry you have found a wrong match. Swipe left, already. Yes, I know Tinder exists. And I know that you are on it too, telling girls that you will marry them. Stop that, already. We are going to share things, of course, many, many of them. But at the same time, it shall always stay our own life too. I will be with you, in everything, but I want you to let me be when I want my space. I will stay loyal, of course, but I don't want to ask for your permission for whom to talk to and whom to meet. And I will give that freedom to you as well. And I have fought too hard to earn this professional life. Trust me, I have gone through screams, fire, and hell. So please don't even think about asking me to give up all my hard work for your idea of gender roles after marriage. Let me define gender role after marriage for you. The only thing that you can expect only me to do will be to get pregnant and breastfeed our kids. Trust me, I would love for science advancement to let that off my shoulders as well. But leaving that sci-fi fantasy aside, seriously, don't expect me to do anything that you won't. Yes, I am a great cook, of Maggi and hot boiling water. So don't expect too much. Men make for great chefs, by the way. I hope you got the hint. And love won't mean sharing my favourite food, always. And I know karate if you ever try to snatch away my food. It will make for quite a news "Wife beats the shit out of her husband for demanding the last slice of the pizza." Of course, I won't marry you for your money. I will earn enough of my own to live with self-respect. But, I will be more than happy if I could ever be of any help to you or your family. We will be one family, one people, so it's absolutely fine. But please never stop me from helping my side of the family with the money that I will earn. I was born into that family, and they will stay my family till I die. And you don't need to take anyone's permission to do anything for your family. So, you will own my heart, yes, but not my bank account or wings. And while we are talking about money, let me clarify that I won't buy my husband by throwing some money as dowry. I really hate this idea and every person who sells it in the name of tradition. To hell with traditions. I want a man of honour and self-respect. Taking dowry makes you impotent. Yes, you read it right.
