"Oh c'mon! Don't come to judge me in your own shoes." Aren't we ourselves judging the other side by saying this? I need some stimulations to run my thoughts and they are many. Coming to the context, yesterday I was reading my friends' impression diary while I came across a friend's writing saying, "Tui ektu plz onnoder jnno character certificate bar korata bondho korte paris" ( This particular expression in Bengali means: Can you please stop giving character certificates to others!). This was intentionally written and was very wisely scratched down, but my strong insight identified the expression. Now why so written? Lemme clear it. I had written a brief character sketch of my best friend (not forever+ who was once upon a time) at the back of this diary. The girl I was talking about came somehow across that thing and written this or she may have some other reasons. But see here, hasn't she gave her point of view while judging me, a character depiction of me. Why should one tell other not to do something where he/she can't forbid himself/ herself from doing the same thing? Am I not judging one to be a judge by saying him/her, " don't judge "? Ain't I? We all are GOOD to ourselves, others are bad, we are correct, all are wrong or we are bad, all are GOOD. This good, bad, correct, wrong all depends upon how you see a situation and how you interprete it. Interpretations leads to some conclusions known as judgements. Main aim is to understand life to enjoy it. To understand comes judgements. So no judgements means no life. But in the run of finding meaning of life it gradually becomes all the more "segunikotewfthijrewsrtwddwfgubikpjftesfg" type. Ah! Now this writing is becoming a shit just like the cloud in my head. And the writing of that girl contains more stuffs like, "Think less for friends. They are temporary diamonds of God", "I and you are having opposite notions of life, look at 9 it looks 6 from the other side" etc. etc. and more of tantruming gyanzzz of life that made me angry rather than thinking. Areh who told we live in same life? Your house is kilometers apart from mine. And of friends, I dunno but I believe myself to be my best friend, how to ignore myself mahn! Seriously! You need to grow up! Now I need answer to the question above from all the readers! I need judgement of the day! #raw_emotions
