dear grandkid, i may tell you the wisdom i learned or all the do's and don'ts to have a perfect life; but the truth is, i won't. i cannot. my life has always been a tapesty of trials and errors. i am stubborn and i hate unsolicited help. therefore, just live your life to the fullest. do what you must; but try not to break too many hearts. stand by your ideals and fight for them. one more thing, be kind; also to yourself. love, #grandkid #challenge #life #advice #yqbaba