Healing is not magical, it takes time, it takes efforts and it hurts. But you know it's worth it all when you walk without the weight of hurt on your shoulders. Many people say that it just needs time. Everything will be okay with time. But sometimes, all you're doing with time is avoiding things and weighing yourself down with one thing after another. At times, you need to address the issue, take effort and resolve it. Because if you don't it's just all piling up and you'd be left waiting for that "one day" when everything is okay. Nope, you get to work for okay, too.