Not long ago, after constant fights and arguments, I realized we often bring up events that happened in the past to add as strong arguments to this current situation in which you feel used, resentful, disrespected and sad. Since you want to prove that your emotion is valid for this instance, you bring up past to add more weight to the sadness and this cycle goes on. This is why most of the fights don't end on the right note. We blame others until they don't understand that they are being manipu #Pain#traumas
