agitation can change to disappointment, then to irritation.... irritation to anger, anger to violence, violence to hatred, & atlast change to self-destruction...! Better opt for distance; as they say prevention is better than cure. Stretching, pushing, fighting, waiting, arguing, messing, missing, wanting, willing, craving, praying, cursing, demanding, dreaming......and what not!! Everything is acceptable until it's causing self-destruction to the one you desperately want to love you back. Let it be. Situation can turn life upside down and sometimes pushing the limits don't help. Think about a soul who isn't able to love themselves, how can they love you back!! They are, at that time going through a phase of unloving themselves. Leave them, give space, if it's yours, will come back to you.