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Marriage is a very risky option. Let me explain you the whole thing through a story.

Arrange marriage :

Divya (imaginary name) was married to a guy, named Ravi (imaginary name). In the beginning of their married life, Divya was trying to understand her in laws and also her husband. Even Ravi was very calm nature he was with her in every situation.
But the problem arrived after few years, when their financial condition was not good and Ravi felt alone but his wife Divya stood with him and helped him financially.
Days passed and now Ravi is jobless and eveything is handled by Divya. Everyday she wakes up early and do every household work plus she started doing a job.
She came home late because she was working extra hours, and on the second hand Ravi do nothing at home. He just watch tv and now he was not even trying to solve all the things. He was enjoying being jobless. He didn't felt thankful of his wife.

Days passed and Divya was still doing job to solve all financial problems and simultaneously she was handling her household works.
One day she asked her husband "i am working outside so you should atleast help me at home".
Then suddenly Ravi shouted and blamed her for wanting him to do useless household work.


I only want to indicate the truth through this , that if one is working hard to maintain relationship than other doesn't even value it. A relationship is a mutual ship in which both the person should contribute equally.


(Now another story)

Love Marriage:

Kunal (imaginary name) was married to Payal(imaginary name). Both were deeply in love with each other so they decided to stay together forever.
So the twist occurs here when Kunal was so busy in his business that he was not giving time to his wife.
Payal was very understanding but sometimes her patience gets out of control and she argue with Kunal.Then everytime kunal say sorry.
As the time was passing, payal was also going far from him.
And one day she decided for divorce.
Kunal was shocked about divorce, he apologised her but nothing worked,
because she started liking someone else when his husband was busy.

And finally they both were divorced.


So my perspective of telling two different stories of two different types of marriages is that it does not matter whether you are arranged or loved. Matter here is, if two people want to stay together forever then one of them has to compromise.

And why one should compromise when the other person is not even understanding the problem.

And according to me it is very dangerous option to get married because compromise could be one time
but marriage wants compromise every day, which is not good.

Is getting married good only because of fear of being alone. But what's the use of that partner with whom your heart is filled with tears and you get frustrated of everyday issues.

Ya i know life goes in zig zag motion so we should accept the reality that marriage is important in indian society and after marriage issues are part of life.
BUT WHY?
As,life will remain same if we will not select the option of marriage then why moving in zig zag motion for others, we can taste the tastes of life alone also.


In short 😀 Don't get married 😂

#Nojoto

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You don’t have to get married

’I’m not a big fan of marriage
I think marriage takes really talented dreamers and creative beings that are capable of creating real change and puts them inside this widely accepted institution of marriage, where they will then spend most of their time, emotions, magic, and valuable energy trying to be “good“ citizens and live up to the impossible ”perfect marriage/perfect family“ illusion that has been so successfully placed in our heads. Marriage also has the potential to produce a lethal feeling that we now have ownership of another soul because they said “I do,” gave us a ring and signed a contract saying they would not leave us (do you ever stop to look at how crazy it all is?).
One of the greatest deceptions we can fall victim to is the lie that we should need someone else in our life in order to be complete.
We are set up waiting for Mr. or Mrs. right to come along so that we can begin our life and be truly happy
I’ve been with the same man for 15 years and we still really, really like each other. I think that has a lot to do with the fact that we each stand alone, beautiful, creating light, both working toward helping each other reach our individual goals. We are so incredibly different, but neither of us is fighting to change the other. We have grown to respect and appreciate each other as we are. We don’t need one another. We enjoy each other, but we don’t need each other... there’s a big difference. The most unromantic line in the world is ”you complete me" — it literally makes me want to scream when I hear it at weddings. I want to complete myself.

Spin solo until you are in perfect harmony with source and are able to create magic alone. Then you can, if you choose, attract someone who can spin along side you. The result is two beautiful souls who are spinning separately, but in perfect harmony... that’s where magic happens!

What about children?

I don’t believe we were all meant to have children and the pressure created by our culture to have a family is RIDICULOUS! That being said, once the decision to have children is made or made for you, then yes, it’s beneficial for their sake to find a mate willing to help you give them the best life possible. That doesn’t mean you both live in the same house, but you are committed to working together peacefully to make sure the children are given the support they need to grow into healthy, confident and emotionally stable members of society.
If you do get married, because that’s what you want... WONDERFUL! Just make sure to keep your expectations realistic and be open and honest about how you’re feeling. It’s unhealthy for anyone to be in a long term relationship where they feel trapped and miserable. It’s also why we have so much trauma related to relationships in our life that didn’t last... mother/father, first love, etc. because we had this fairy tale image of what love looks like and when it turned out different we were crushed.
Don’t marry your soul mate

Billy is a good friend (the best, really). He’s the man that thinks I’m wonderful, amazing and incredibly gorgeous. He’s all in and ready to help and support me and this unit in anyway he can. He’s the most incredible father and team-mate. We are perfect for each other in so many ways. We bring out the best in each other almost always. We don’t need or cling to each other and are able to stand alone even though we’d prefer to stand together. This relationship is easy and gets shit done. Billy is sweet, patient... downright wonderful and I love him, but he’s not my soul mate in some kind of mystical, ancient bond, finish your sentences kind of way. We are together in a perfectly unique union that has a purpose completely unique to itself.

What is a soul mate? Is there such a thing? Each of us will answer these questions differently depending on your belief system. I personally believe soul mates are people we’ve been connected to since the beginning of time. People that weave in and out of this massive interconnected web that is a collection of our many lives. Souls matched perfectly with ours to help us grow. Our soul mate or mates aren’t always meant to be our lovers. I think this is really important for all of us to understand. As a culture we seem to struggle with understanding deep relationships that aren’t sexual or unions that aren’t romantic, but have a greater purpose. Any deep connection sensed between two people is meant to become romantic, right? No. There are all kinds of connections in this wild life.
I believe soul mates exist and they will show up in each life when you need them. They come to push you, challenge you, wake you up and push you forward. Honestly, you’re probably better off not marrying that person, because then you’ll get caught up in creating the ideal marriage (WHATEVER THE HELL THAT EVEN IS) and forget why your souls were put together from the beginning. You’ll all too easily forget that your job is to help each other evolve as quickly as possible not torture each other into this bizarre role we’ve created that a husband and wife ought to play. Because who knows what that looks like for each of us. Lord knows we’ve all experienced interesting versions of those characters.
It’s this idea that one person is supposed to meet all of our needs that sets us up for heartache and disappointment. Instead, why don’t we look first at what it is we would like our relationship with another human to create or accomplish. Then believe that the universe will send us a perfect match for that goal. If you just want to have great sex and travel around the world then you will call forth a completely different soul than if you want to raise a family. If you aren’t sure, just trust me on this one. Knowing exactly what we want is the first step to being able to create the most magical union ever.
Listen, I’m not an expert, and I certainly haven’t figured it all out. I do know one thing for certain though, and that is the reality that what we are doing is working. How many happy couples do you know? Okay. How many do you know that have been together longer than a few years and have kids? Not just comfortable, but truly happy. It makes you wonder if we have it all wrong. We are all searching for that crazy, wild, intense love of our life to match up with and stay with that person at all costs till death do us part. Maybe, just maybe, we should be looking for something completely and totally different.
Let’s rewrite the norm.
Let’s hack parenting, love, partnerships, friendships, connections, soul mate unions, LIFE, and marriage as we know it and create what works, what feels right to our soul without being afraid of upsetting the norm.
Because in case no one has told you, normal is WAY overrated.

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She couldn't say "No"
 Because
They forced her to be 'the good wife'
#section497

#section497
Marriage is between two individuals.
It's a union of two conscious minds,
And once again, proudly beating up the heart, we can say hurrah! Supreme is indeed supreme. Whether it's section 377 or section 497.
'The Good Wife' who has no reason to complain even if her husband has a relationship outside marriage.
Why it's always women who are being subjected to such brutality in the name of equality.

Adultery may not be the cause of an unhappy marriage, but a result after all. It would be tantamount to punishing people who lived in an unhappy marriage.

"Attaching criminality to adultery is going too far... "
Such laws are only mediums to confine women, treating them as an object. Why differentiation living under the Same roof.
The country which proudly declares itself a free nation,
The country which worship goddesses treats it's own as merely objects and subjects of disgust.
A woman's dignity has been smashed under this section 497 since 150 years in the name of protecting them. Is this the equality that we had fought for?

A woman has sexual autonomy within marriage. Marriage does not mean ceding  autonomy of one to the other. Ability to make sexual choices is essential to human liberty. Even within private zones, an individual should be allowed her choice.

It's time to wake up!!

#section497 #OkBye

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Not all love blossom before marriage
Not all arrange marriage are sad. #NojotoQuote

Not all
#nojotoenglish #Nojoto
Not against love marriage
and ya sometime perfect search person also turn diffrent after marriage.
I came across many example
my one friend when we use to live in bengal her mother is bow remarried. her parents has arranged marriage but he despite of being lawyer has done domestic violence.
but sometime it also turn into good. when you get unexpectedly understanding husband by arrange marriage.

But it's wrong to seprate couple who is in love
#Nojoto #nojotoenglish #lovemarriage #arrangemarriage

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Marriage:
Being the bridegroom,
I witnessed 
both bridal laughter and bridal tear.

Arrayed in the beautiful sari under golden veil, 
with a heart full of buckets 
of emotions And 
eyes full of sky kissing dreams,
the lunar face reached the altar.

With the chanting of mantra,
my fingers brushed 
on her forehead 
to adorn cardinal vermilion.

As I made her wear the sacred thread around her neck
And we circled around holy fire,
glimpse of her smile 
justified bridal laughter 
of forming the world 
with her man of dreams.

As the cowrie game ended 
the marriage 
and time rang the bell to leave her maternal home, 
bridal tears gushed like ocean from her eyes.

Father became emotional,
mother became disheartened 
to see her darling leaving home,
friends sang epithalamium
to bid adieu.

Bridal tears unknowingly 
fell on my shoulder,
singing the bridal song
And among all the chaos,
the chauffeur ran the car to reach the destination.

Marriage:
Being the bridegroom,
I witnessed
both bridal laughter and bridal tear.

Arrayed in the beautiful sari under golden veil,
with a heart full of buckets
of emotions And
eyes full of sky kissing dreams,
the lunar face reached the altar.

With the chanting of mantra,
my fingers brushed
on her forehead
to adorn cardinal vermilion.

As I made her wear the sacred thread around her neck
And we circled around holy fire,
glimpse of her smile
justified bridal laughter
of forming the world
with her man of dreams.

As the cowrie game ended
the marriage
and time rang the bell to leave her maternal home,
bridal tears gushed like ocean from her eyes.

Father became emotional,
mother became disheartened
to see her darling leaving home,
friends sang epithalamium
to bid adieu.

Bridal tears unknowingly
fell on my shoulder,
singing the bridal song
And among all the chaos,
the chauffeur ran the car to reach the destination.


#nojotoenglish,#Marriage,#bridallaughter,#bridaltear,#cowrie,#Dream,#Bride,#bridegroom

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