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So often we may blame ourselves For “failed” frien

So often we may blame ourselves
For “failed” friendships or relationships
Feeling that when they end or fall apart
It is a reflection of us
Rather than understanding that
One person’s vision for the relationship
Simply didn’t fit with another’s
Or what one person was willing to make work
And devote their time, energy and attention to
Another person was willing to walk away from.
And while we may have broken apart
And gone our separate ways
Or life may have had different plans
In store for each of us
We do not have to feel broken inside
As we are each whole, beautiful and unique individuals
Who at our best
May enrich and enhance the lives of others.
It can be helpful to remember
That what one person is incapable of seeing value in
Another person may greatly admire and treasure.
What one person finds unappealing
Another person may view as extraordinarily beautiful.
And what one person views as an option
Another may view as priceless.
And just because you weren’t the best fit for them
That doesn’t mean you won’t be a good fit
For a range of other meaningful connections
With wonderful people
Or that you lack worth or value
Simply due to incompatibility.

©purvarth #Compatibility
So often we may blame ourselves
For “failed” friendships or relationships
Feeling that when they end or fall apart
It is a reflection of us
Rather than understanding that
One person’s vision for the relationship
Simply didn’t fit with another’s
Or what one person was willing to make work
And devote their time, energy and attention to
Another person was willing to walk away from.
And while we may have broken apart
And gone our separate ways
Or life may have had different plans
In store for each of us
We do not have to feel broken inside
As we are each whole, beautiful and unique individuals
Who at our best
May enrich and enhance the lives of others.
It can be helpful to remember
That what one person is incapable of seeing value in
Another person may greatly admire and treasure.
What one person finds unappealing
Another person may view as extraordinarily beautiful.
And what one person views as an option
Another may view as priceless.
And just because you weren’t the best fit for them
That doesn’t mean you won’t be a good fit
For a range of other meaningful connections
With wonderful people
Or that you lack worth or value
Simply due to incompatibility.

©purvarth #Compatibility