Love is not rational because if it comes in rational order then Romeo and Juliet wouldn't have died for each other we wouldn't have fallen in love with metaphors and Augustus that's how simple yet extraordinary love is that's how we are designed to fall in love with everything around us. Why don't we fall in love with all the cities we've never been to with the emptiness and darkness with the fire and the fireflies with the black and white with the tea stall in remote places