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"Tum Kaisi Mohabbat karti Ho..!! Tum Jab Bhi Ghar Par Aati Ho Aur Sab Say Batain Karti Ho Mein Aout Say Parday ki Janaa'n Bus Tum Ko Dekhta Rehta Hoon Ik Tum Ko Dekhnay Ki Khatir Mein Kitna Pagal Hota Hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jab Darwazay Par Dastak Ho Ya Ghanti Phone Ki Bajti Ho Mein Chor K Sab Kuch Bhagta Hoon Aur Tum Ko Jo Na Paoon Tou Ji Bhar K Ronay Lagta Hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Mehfil Mein Kahin Bhi Jana Ho Kapron Ka Selection Kerna Ho Rang Bohat Say Samnay Bikhray Hoon Us Rang Pe Dil Aa Jata Hai Jo Rang K Tum Ko Bhata Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Rozana Apnay College Mein Kisi Aur Ka Lecture Suntay Hoay Ya Break K Khali Ghantay Mein dosti Say Batain Kertay Hoay Meray Dhiyan Mein Tum Aa Jati Ho Mein, Mein Nahin Rehta Phir Janan Mein Tum Mein Gum Ho Jata hoon Bus Khuwabon Mein Kho Jata Hoon Un Aankhon Mein Kho Jata Hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jis Chehray Par Bhi Nighah Paray Her Chehra Tum Sa Lagta Hai Wo Sham Ho Ya Ke Dhop Samey Sab Kitna Bhala Sa Lagta Hai Janay Ye Kaisa Nasha Hai Garmi Ka Tapta Mausam Bhi Jaray Ka Maheena Lagta Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Tum Jab Bhi Samnay Aati Ho Mein Tum Say Sunn'na Chahta Hoon Kash Kabhi Tum Ye Keh Do Tum Mujh Say Muhabbat Kerti Ho Tum Mujh Ko Bohat Hi Chahti Ho Lekin Janay Tum Kyun Chup Ho Yeh Soch K Dil Ghabrata Hai Aisa Tou Nahin Hai Na janan Sirf Meri Nazar Ka Dhoka Ho Tum Nay Mujh Ko Chaha Hi Na Ho Koi Aur Hi Dil Mein Rehta Ho Mein Tum Say Poochna Chahta hoon Mein Tum Say Kehna Chahta hoon Lekin Kuch Pooch Nahin Sakta Mana Ke Muhabbat Hai Phir Bhi Lab Apnay Khol Nahin Sakta Mein Larka Hoon Kaisay Keh Doon Mein Kaisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Mein Tum Say Ye Kaisay Pochoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho......!! Chup Chap See Mein Ho Jata Hoon Phir Dil Mein Apnay Kehta hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho...... tum kaisi mohabbat karti ho .????????????"

Tum Kaisi Mohabbat karti Ho..!! Tum Jab
Bhi Ghar Par Aati Ho Aur Sab Say Batain
Karti Ho Mein Aout Say Parday ki Janaa'n
Bus Tum Ko Dekhta Rehta Hoon Ik Tum Ko
Dekhnay Ki Khatir Mein Kitna Pagal Hota
Hoon
Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jab Darwazay Par
Dastak Ho Ya Ghanti Phone Ki Bajti Ho Mein
Chor K Sab Kuch Bhagta Hoon Aur Tum Ko Jo
Na Paoon Tou Ji Bhar K Ronay Lagta Hoon
Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Mehfil Mein Kahin
Bhi Jana Ho Kapron Ka Selection Kerna Ho
Rang Bohat Say Samnay Bikhray Hoon Us
Rang Pe Dil Aa Jata Hai Jo Rang K Tum Ko
Bhata Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon
Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Rozana
Apnay College Mein Kisi Aur Ka Lecture
Suntay Hoay Ya Break K Khali Ghantay Mein
dosti Say Batain Kertay Hoay Meray
Dhiyan Mein Tum Aa Jati Ho Mein, Mein
Nahin Rehta Phir Janan Mein Tum Mein Gum
Ho Jata hoon Bus Khuwabon Mein Kho Jata
Hoon Un Aankhon Mein Kho Jata Hoon Mein
Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jis Chehray Par Bhi
Nighah Paray Her Chehra Tum Sa Lagta Hai
Wo Sham Ho Ya Ke Dhop Samey Sab Kitna
Bhala Sa Lagta Hai Janay Ye Kaisa Nasha
Hai Garmi Ka Tapta Mausam Bhi Jaray Ka
Maheena Lagta Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta
Hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Tum
Jab Bhi Samnay Aati Ho Mein Tum Say
Sunn'na Chahta Hoon Kash Kabhi Tum Ye Keh
Do Tum Mujh Say Muhabbat Kerti Ho Tum
Mujh Ko Bohat Hi Chahti Ho Lekin Janay
Tum Kyun Chup Ho Yeh Soch K Dil Ghabrata
Hai Aisa Tou Nahin Hai Na janan Sirf Meri
Nazar Ka Dhoka Ho Tum Nay Mujh Ko Chaha
Hi Na Ho Koi Aur Hi Dil Mein Rehta Ho Mein
Tum Say Poochna Chahta hoon Mein Tum Say
Kehna Chahta hoon Lekin Kuch Pooch Nahin
Sakta Mana Ke Muhabbat Hai Phir Bhi Lab
Apnay Khol Nahin Sakta Mein Larka Hoon
Kaisay Keh Doon Mein Kaisi Muhabbat Kerta
Hoon Mein Tum Say Ye Kaisay Pochoon Tum
Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho......!! Chup Chap
See Mein Ho Jata Hoon Phir Dil Mein Apnay
Kehta hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon
Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho......
tum kaisi mohabbat karti ho .????????????

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Tum Kaisi Mohabbat karti Ho..!! Tum Jab
Bhi Ghar Par Aati Ho Aur Sab Say Batain
Karti Ho Mein Aout Say Parday ki Janaa'n
Bus Tum Ko Dekhta Rehta Hoon Ik Tum Ko
Dekhnay Ki Khatir Mein Kitna Pagal Hota
Hoon
Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jab Darwazay Par
Dastak Ho Ya Ghanti Phone Ki Bajti Ho Mein
Chor K Sab Kuch Bhagta Hoon Aur Tum Ko Jo
Na Paoon Tou Ji Bhar K Ronay Lagta Hoon
Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Mehfil Mein Kahin
Bhi Jana Ho Kapron Ka Selection Kerna Ho
Rang Bohat Say Samnay Bikhray Hoon Us
Rang Pe Dil Aa Jata Hai Jo Rang K Tum Ko
Bhata Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon
Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Rozana
Apnay College Mein Kisi Aur Ka Lecture
Suntay Hoay Ya Break K Khali Ghantay Mein
dosti Say Batain Kertay Hoay Meray
Dhiyan Mein Tum Aa Jati Ho Mein, Mein
Nahin Rehta Phir Janan Mein Tum Mein Gum
Ho Jata hoon Bus Khuwabon Mein Kho Jata
Hoon Un Aankhon Mein Kho Jata Hoon Mein
Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jis Chehray Par Bhi
Nighah Paray Her Chehra Tum Sa Lagta Hai
Wo Sham Ho Ya Ke Dhop Samey Sab Kitna
Bhala Sa Lagta Hai Janay Ye Kaisa Nasha
Hai Garmi Ka Tapta Mausam Bhi Jaray Ka
Maheena Lagta Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta
Hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Tum
Jab Bhi Samnay Aati Ho Mein Tum Say
Sunn'na Chahta Hoon Kash Kabhi Tum Ye Keh
Do Tum Mujh Say Muhabbat Kerti Ho Tum
Mujh Ko Bohat Hi Chahti Ho Lekin Janay
Tum Kyun Chup Ho Yeh Soch K Dil Ghabrata
Hai Aisa Tou Nahin Hai Na janan Sirf Meri
Nazar Ka Dhoka Ho Tum Nay Mujh Ko Chaha
Hi Na Ho Koi Aur Hi Dil Mein Rehta Ho Mein
Tum Say Poochna Chahta hoon Mein Tum Say
Kehna Chahta hoon Lekin Kuch Pooch Nahin
Sakta Mana Ke Muhabbat Hai Phir Bhi Lab
Apnay Khol Nahin Sakta Mein Larka Hoon
Kaisay Keh Doon Mein Kaisi Muhabbat Kerta
Hoon Mein Tum Say Ye Kaisay Pochoon Tum
Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho......!! Chup Chap
See Mein Ho Jata Hoon Phir Dil Mein Apnay
Kehta hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon
Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho......
tum kaisi mohabbat karti ho .????????????

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How to Attain Victory Over Anger
Just as you learn to keep accounts, and when you learn the key elements of accounting then tracking becomes very easy. Similarly there is a main point, the key element, the root of every question, and if you learn this then the answer to that question will automatically come to you.The question that has come is that how to attain victory over anger? Then the question really is, where does anger come from? Gita says - “Anger comes from desire” - “kaamaatkrodhaayabhijaayate” (Gita 2/62). What is that anger? Human beings have understood that “desires are for money, wealth, grandeur, power, etc.” - These are also desires, but what is the main and real desire? “This should happen and this should not happen” - the name of this subtle want within is called “desire”.
First you hold on to the point that “this should certainly happen” and when that does not happen, then you become angry. And “This should not happen” and when someone does that or does something opposing to your wishes, then you get angry. This should happen and this should not happen, this is the root of all anger.
There is no gain in desiring that it should happen like this, or it should not happen like this; because will the world ask us before doing something? Will they do according to your liking? You want from your wife, son and servant that they should listen to you, then do they not wish the same of you? If they have nothing on their mind then they will do as you say, but in their minds too there is that thought that “ I will do it this way or not do it this way” then how will they listen only to you? When you too are not willing to listen to how they want things done, then what rights do you have that they should listen to your ways? Therefore when the feeling arises within that “This should happen like this and it should not happen like this” - then leave the insistence that the person should do it like that alone. In this insistence is your pride, in other words, I am greater, therefore he should listen to me. This pride of greatness is the main cause, and when things do not happen the way you want, then that pride itself comes in the form of anger.
If you desire peace then give up pride; because pride is the root of all the demoniac qualities. In the shadow of pride of greatness lies all the demoniac qualities of Kaliyug, All the bad qualities pertaining to demoniac qualities such as anger, greed, attachment, jealousy, passion, hypocrisy, deceit etc., they all come under the umbrella of pride, because pride is their king. If you do not give up pride then how will anger go away! Therefore give up that pride.
Now what is the solution for giving it up? Those who do not listen to you, they are helping you in getting rid of your pride, and those who listen and do as you say, they are swelling your pride - are you getting this point or not? The people who are obeying you are not benefiting you as much as, those who don’t do as you say. For you own good, the more that your pride is confronted the more better it is for you. Therefore you must be grateful to those who are not listening to you, because as such this is for our own well-being.
If they knowingly do not listen to you, saying that brother, we are not listening to you because it is for your own good, as your pride will go away, then to it is to your benefit only. They are not further swelling your pride i.e. your pride is not getting further bloated. Do you not wish for what is for your good or do you not? Do you want your spiritual progress or do you want your downfall? If you desire your spiritual growth, then it will be possible only when you are free of pride. And you will become free of pride when no one listens to you. If someone listens to you, then your words become established and this itself is cause for pride. This itself is demoniac tendency - “dambho darpobhimaanashrav krodhah” (Gita 16/4). Therefore those who do not listen to you, they are gracing you immensely. They are removing your demoniac tendencies and instilling divine tendencies in you.
Now the question that has come is that by not listening the child will become insolent and arrogant? By listening to you, you will become filled with pride, and if he does not listen then he will become insolent - now think deeply on these two points. If you are not there, then too by doing as he wants he will become insolent regardless, however how will your pride go away? Insolent he will be regardless of you, but your pride will not go away. Therefore you must get rid of your pride first and the foremost.
Second point is that if you do not dominate over him then your mild nature, that is free from pride will make an impression on him, by which his insolence will go away, rather he will become alright. You say to him that brother, you must not do this sort of work, and even thereafter if he does so, let go and become peaceful and silent. If he behaves insolently, he will get the consequences of his actions. On getting the fruits, he will become alert, and then his insolence will automatically go away. But by your persistent telling, his insolence will not go away as quickly as it would go away from suffering the consequences of his insolent behavior. The reason for this is that in his mind he will hold on to his own points, and what you say will stay superficially on the surface like silver plating. That plating will wear off, then how can his insolence go away entirely? The real solution to getting rid of his insolence is to get rid of your own pride.
If man wants to live in a family, then he must learn how to live in a family. The art of living in the family is that do as they say, do according what their wishes are. Fulfill your duty and make them happy.
What does it mean to live in a family? You have certain obligation to fulfill your duty. What is your duty? To fulfill your duties properly, whether the wife listens, does not listen, whether the son listens, does not listen, whether brother listens, does not listen, whether parents listen, do not listen. Do not ever look towards whether they do their duty or not. When you look towards their duty, and see towards their insolent or rebellious behavior etc., during such times you are deviating from your duty. Rather, you are falling from your duty. As such, where has it been said that your duty is to see towards other’s faults? No where in the scriptures it has been said that you see towards other’s faults; rather it has been said that this world is made up of the three constituents of nature (mode of passion “rajas”, ignorance “tamas” and goodness “sattva”, it is filled with faults.
Gun yah ubhaya na dekhiahin dekhia so abibek ||
(Manas 7/41)If others have good qualities you may see them, but do not see their bad qualities. If you see towards their bad qualities, those qualities will come in you. And on seeing those bad qualities if you are getting angry with them to rescue them from their willful acts, then you cannot be saved from that anger. Therefore you do your duty. We are not to see towards other’s duty, nor are we to see towards their flaws. Yes! If you have a son, then it is your duty to teach him good lessons, but wanting that he should do exactly as you say - that is not your duty. That is his duty. It is not your duty to show him what his duty is. Your duty is only to say that son, look it is not good to do like this. If he says - “no, no father, I will do it like this”; then say – “OK, do it that way!” This is a very good medicine. I too am taking this medicine. The medicine that has been given, is a very effective medicine. If you say – “Do like this” and if he says, “No ! I will do like that only.” Then
simply say – “OK! do it like that.”Rajjab ros na kijiye koyi kahe kyon hi |
Hasker utter dijiye haa babaji yu hi ||If what he is doing is sinful or unlawful, then do not accept it. We are to say that which is in accordance with the scriptures, however if they do not listen, then do the scriptures say to fight with them or to control them? You only have the rights to tell them what you know to be true, “karmanyavaadhikaaraste” (Gita 2/47) but thinking that they should do exactly as you say - that is the fruit, to which you have no rights. “Maa phaleshu kadaachan” (Gita 2/47). You have done your part, your duty was only to point out. It was not your duty to make then do as you say! To do as you say is their duty. We only have to explain their duty. If they fulfill their duty then there is no obstacle in your spiritual progress and if they do not fulfill their duty then too there is no loss. There is no loss for you at all, because you have said what is for their welfare. This is a priceless point !
Narayana! Narayana !! Narayana !!!
From "Jeevan Upyogi Pravachan " in Hindi by Swami Ramsukhdasji

नारायण ! नारायण ! नारायण !

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"MUHABAT Muhabat kiya hai? Taseer-e-muhabat kiya hai? Mahboob ka majboor kerna or muhib ka majboor ho jana? Hamaisha easa hi ku hota hai k 7 arab say zaid logon mai hamai sirf aik easay hi shaks say muhabat ho jati hai jo hum say be-naiz hota hai? Sirf aik osi insan k peechay hum apni tamam qowatai sarf ker k apna sab har jatay hai. Ku hum zaat k bajaye wajood ki talash mai rehtay hai? Ku humai allah rah-e-rast per nhi lata? Jub keh wo to logon k dilo ko moar denay ki taqat rakhta hai. Phir ku allah humai tanha choor deta hai? Jb hum tahajud mai allah rab ul izat say ratoon ko uth ker sirf osi shaks ko mangtay hai jis say hamari zindagi ka tasalsul barqarar hai, to wo hamari ku nhi sunta? Hum say ku bekhabar ho jata hai, jesay osay kuch ilm hi nhi? Ye kesay mumkin hai k kurah e arz( کرہ ارض) per aik insan dosray insan k leye tarp raha ho or osay khabar tak hi na ho. Wo to khud kehta hai k mai tmsay 70 maaon say bhi zada muhabat kerta hoon, to phir wo ku begana ho jata hai? Osnay to wada keya hai k aee ibn e adam tu mughsay mang, mai tughay nawazoo ga, phir wo humai wo shaks ku nhi de deta jis k hum talab gar hotay hai? Hum kesay ye tawaqo ker sktay hai k jis say hum sab say zada olfat rakhtay hai wo bhi hamaray leye easay hi jazbat rakhta ho? Oskay jazbaat ki shidat bhi wohi ho jo hamaray jazbaat ki shidat hai? Jb allah hamai itni shidat say apnay pass bulata hai to kiya hum osi shidat say oskay pass jatay hai? Wo humai din mai 5 bar dawat deta hai jo hum be khoof-o- be drdi say thukra detay hai. To hum ye kesay ommed laga lain k jo amal hum kertay hai os ka azala nhi bharna ho ga? Ye duniya to makafat e amal hai. Lakin nhi! Hamara zarf allah k zarf jitna nhi hai. Hum gunnah kertay hai, mgr wo یوں apna rawaiya rakhta hai jesay osnay kuch dekha hi na ho. Wo apna rizq nhi rokta. Ye sb hamaray zheno ka fitoor hai. Bhala easay ho skta hai k hum mangay or wo na de? Wo deta zurur hai, magr wo jo hamaray leye behtr ho, na k wo jisko hum apnay leye behtr tasawur kerai. Wo duwain qabool kerta hai, magr tb jb onki qabooliyat ka behtareen waqt ho! Na keh tb jb onki qabooliyat ka baad tareen wqt ho. Wo to hamara bhala chahta hai. Wo to kehta hai na "ae ibn e adam! Ik teri chah hai or ik meri chah hai. Ho ga wohi jo meri chah hai. Bas agr tu nay khud ko sapurd ker deya oskay jo meri chah hai, to mai tujh ko wo bhi doo ga jo teri chah hai. Lakin agr tu nay mukhalfat ki oski jo meri chah hai, to mai tujh ko thaka doo ga osmai jo teri chah hai. Beshak ho ga wohi jo meri chah hai" Hum wo tamam aafaal(افعال) sar injam de rhay hotay hai jo allah ki chah k khilaf hotay hai. Hum allah ki trf say mutaain (متعین) kerdah rastay ki mukhalif simt per chal rahay hotay hai, hamai ehsas hi nhi hota k hum kis gunnah k murtaqib tehraye ja rhay hotay hai. Hum apni chah ko pora kernay ki tag-o-doo mai masroof hotay hai, or wo Allah apni chah ko pora ker k dikhata hai jismai sirf haamari bhalai shamil hoti hai. Beshak insan bara hi bekhabar waqaiya howa hai!! - Danial Hassan"

MUHABAT
Muhabat kiya hai? Taseer-e-muhabat kiya hai? Mahboob ka majboor kerna or muhib ka majboor ho jana?
Hamaisha easa hi ku hota hai k 7 arab say zaid logon mai hamai sirf aik easay hi shaks say muhabat ho jati hai jo hum say be-naiz hota hai?
Sirf aik osi insan k peechay hum apni tamam qowatai sarf ker k apna sab har jatay hai. 
Ku hum zaat k bajaye wajood ki talash mai rehtay hai?
Ku humai allah rah-e-rast per nhi lata? Jub keh wo to logon k dilo ko moar denay ki taqat rakhta hai. Phir ku allah humai tanha choor deta hai? Jb hum tahajud mai allah rab ul izat say ratoon ko uth ker sirf osi shaks ko mangtay hai jis say hamari zindagi ka tasalsul barqarar hai, to wo hamari ku nhi sunta?
Hum say ku bekhabar ho jata hai, jesay osay kuch ilm hi nhi?
Ye kesay mumkin hai k kurah e arz( کرہ ارض) per aik insan dosray insan k leye tarp raha ho or osay khabar tak hi na ho. Wo to khud kehta hai k mai tmsay 70 maaon say bhi zada muhabat kerta hoon, to phir wo ku begana ho jata hai?
Osnay to wada keya hai k aee ibn e adam tu mughsay mang, mai tughay nawazoo ga, phir wo humai wo shaks ku nhi de deta jis k hum talab gar hotay hai?
Hum kesay ye tawaqo ker sktay hai k jis say hum sab say zada olfat rakhtay hai wo bhi hamaray leye easay hi jazbat rakhta ho?
Oskay jazbaat ki shidat bhi wohi ho jo hamaray jazbaat ki shidat hai? Jb allah hamai itni shidat say apnay pass bulata hai to kiya hum osi shidat say oskay pass jatay hai? Wo humai din mai 5 bar dawat deta hai jo hum be khoof-o- be drdi say thukra detay hai. To hum ye kesay ommed laga lain k jo amal hum kertay hai os ka azala nhi bharna ho ga? 
Ye duniya to makafat e amal hai. Lakin nhi! Hamara zarf allah k zarf jitna nhi hai. Hum gunnah kertay hai, mgr wo یوں apna rawaiya rakhta hai jesay osnay kuch dekha hi na ho. Wo apna rizq nhi rokta.
Ye sb hamaray zheno ka fitoor hai. Bhala easay ho skta hai k hum mangay or wo na de? Wo deta zurur hai, magr wo jo hamaray leye behtr ho, na k wo jisko hum apnay leye behtr tasawur kerai. Wo duwain qabool kerta hai, magr tb jb onki qabooliyat ka behtareen waqt ho! Na keh tb jb onki qabooliyat ka baad tareen wqt ho. Wo to hamara bhala chahta hai. Wo to kehta hai na

    "ae ibn e adam!  Ik teri chah hai or ik meri chah hai. Ho ga wohi jo meri chah hai. Bas agr tu nay khud ko sapurd ker deya oskay jo meri chah hai, to mai tujh ko wo bhi doo ga jo teri chah hai. Lakin agr tu nay mukhalfat ki oski jo meri chah hai, to mai tujh ko thaka doo ga osmai jo teri chah hai. Beshak ho ga wohi jo meri chah hai"

Hum wo tamam aafaal(افعال) sar injam de rhay hotay hai jo allah ki chah k khilaf hotay hai. Hum allah ki trf say mutaain (متعین) kerdah rastay ki mukhalif simt per chal rahay hotay hai, hamai ehsas hi nhi hota k hum kis gunnah k murtaqib tehraye ja rhay hotay hai. Hum apni chah ko pora kernay ki tag-o-doo mai masroof hotay hai, or wo Allah apni chah ko pora ker k dikhata hai jismai sirf haamari bhalai shamil hoti hai.
Beshak insan bara hi bekhabar waqaiya howa hai!!

- Danial Hassan

 

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"MUHABAT Muhabat kiya hai? Taseer-e-muhabat kiya hai? Mahboob ka majboor kerna or muhib ka majboor ho jana? Hamaisha easa hi ku hota hai k 7 arab say zaid logon mai hamai sirf aik easay hi shaks say muhabat ho jati hai jo hum say be-naiz hota hai? Sirf aik osi insan k peechay hum apni tamam qowatai sarf ker k apna sab har jatay hai. Ku hum zaat k bajaye wajood ki talash mai rehtay hai? Ku humai allah rah-e-rast per nhi lata? Jub keh wo to logon k dilo ko moar denay ki taqat rakhta hai. Phir ku allah humai tanha choor deta hai? Jb hum tahajud mai allah rab ul izat say ratoon ko uth ker sirf osi shaks ko mangtay hai jis say hamari zindagi ka tasalsul barqarar hai, to wo hamari ku nhi sunta? Hum say ku bekhabar ho jata hai, jesay osay kuch ilm hi nhi? Ye kesay mumkin hai k kurah e arz( کرہ ارض) per aik insan dosray insan k leye tarp raha ho or osay khabar tak hi na ho. Wo to khud kehta hai k mai tmsay 70 maaon say bhi zada muhabat kerta hoon, to phir wo ku begana ho jata hai? Osnay to wada keya hai k aee ibn e adam tu mughsay mang, mai tughay nawazoo ga, phir wo humai wo shaks ku nhi de deta jis k hum talab gar hotay hai? Hum kesay ye tawaqo ker sktay hai k jis say hum sab say zada olfat rakhtay hai wo bhi hamaray leye easay hi jazbat rakhta ho? Oskay jazbaat ki shidat bhi wohi ho jo hamaray jazbaat ki shidat hai? Jb allah hamai itni shidat say apnay pass bulata hai to kiya hum osi shidat say oskay pass jatay hai? Wo humai din mai 5 bar dawat deta hai jo hum be khoof-o- be drdi say thukra detay hai. To hum ye kesay ommed laga lain k jo amal hum kertay hai os ka azala nhi bharna ho ga? Ye duniya to makafat e amal hai. Lakin nhi! Hamara zarf allah k zarf jitna nhi hai. Hum gunnah kertay hai, mgr wo یوں apna rawaiya rakhta hai jesay osnay kuch dekha hi na ho. Wo apna rizq nhi rokta. Ye sb hamaray zheno ka fitoor hai. Bhala easay ho skta hai k hum mangay or wo na de? Wo deta zurur hai, magr wo jo hamaray leye behtr ho, na k wo jisko hum apnay leye behtr tasawur kerai. Wo duwain qabool kerta hai, magr tb jb onki qabooliyat ka behtareen waqt ho! Na keh tb jb onki qabooliyat ka baad tareen wqt ho. Wo to hamara bhala chahta hai. Wo to kehta hai na "ae ibn e adam! Ik teri chah hai or ik meri chah hai. Ho ga wohi jo meri chah hai. Bas agr tu nay khud ko sapurd ker deya oskay jo meri chah hai, to mai tujh ko wo bhi doo ga jo teri chah hai. Lakin agr tu nay mukhalfat ki oski jo meri chah hai, to mai tujh ko thaka doo ga osmai jo teri chah hai. Beshak ho ga wohi jo meri chah hai" Hum wo tamam aafaal(افعال) sar injam de rhay hotay hai jo allah ki chah k khilaf hotay hai. Hum allah ki trf say mutaain (متعین) kerdah rastay ki mukhalif simt per chal rahay hotay hai, hamai ehsas hi nhi hota k hum kis gunnah k murtaqib tehraye ja rhay hotay hai. Hum apni chah ko pora kernay ki tag-o-doo mai masroof hotay hai, or wo Allah apni chah ko pora ker k dikhata hai jismai sirf haamari bhalai shamil hoti hai. Beshak insan bara hi bekhabar waqaiya howa hai!! - Danial Hassan"

MUHABAT
Muhabat kiya hai? Taseer-e-muhabat kiya hai? Mahboob ka majboor kerna or muhib ka majboor ho jana?
Hamaisha easa hi ku hota hai k 7 arab say zaid logon mai hamai sirf aik easay hi shaks say muhabat ho jati hai jo hum say be-naiz hota hai?
Sirf aik osi insan k peechay hum apni tamam qowatai sarf ker k apna sab har jatay hai. 
Ku hum zaat k bajaye wajood ki talash mai rehtay hai?
Ku humai allah rah-e-rast per nhi lata? Jub keh wo to logon k dilo ko moar denay ki taqat rakhta hai. Phir ku allah humai tanha choor deta hai? Jb hum tahajud mai allah rab ul izat say ratoon ko uth ker sirf osi shaks ko mangtay hai jis say hamari zindagi ka tasalsul barqarar hai, to wo hamari ku nhi sunta?
Hum say ku bekhabar ho jata hai, jesay osay kuch ilm hi nhi?
Ye kesay mumkin hai k kurah e arz( کرہ ارض) per aik insan dosray insan k leye tarp raha ho or osay khabar tak hi na ho. Wo to khud kehta hai k mai tmsay 70 maaon say bhi zada muhabat kerta hoon, to phir wo ku begana ho jata hai?
Osnay to wada keya hai k aee ibn e adam tu mughsay mang, mai tughay nawazoo ga, phir wo humai wo shaks ku nhi de deta jis k hum talab gar hotay hai?
Hum kesay ye tawaqo ker sktay hai k jis say hum sab say zada olfat rakhtay hai wo bhi hamaray leye easay hi jazbat rakhta ho?
Oskay jazbaat ki shidat bhi wohi ho jo hamaray jazbaat ki shidat hai? Jb allah hamai itni shidat say apnay pass bulata hai to kiya hum osi shidat say oskay pass jatay hai? Wo humai din mai 5 bar dawat deta hai jo hum be khoof-o- be drdi say thukra detay hai. To hum ye kesay ommed laga lain k jo amal hum kertay hai os ka azala nhi bharna ho ga? 
Ye duniya to makafat e amal hai. Lakin nhi! Hamara zarf allah k zarf jitna nhi hai. Hum gunnah kertay hai, mgr wo یوں apna rawaiya rakhta hai jesay osnay kuch dekha hi na ho. Wo apna rizq nhi rokta.
Ye sb hamaray zheno ka fitoor hai. Bhala easay ho skta hai k hum mangay or wo na de? Wo deta zurur hai, magr wo jo hamaray leye behtr ho, na k wo jisko hum apnay leye behtr tasawur kerai. Wo duwain qabool kerta hai, magr tb jb onki qabooliyat ka behtareen waqt ho! Na keh tb jb onki qabooliyat ka baad tareen wqt ho. Wo to hamara bhala chahta hai. Wo to kehta hai na

    "ae ibn e adam!  Ik teri chah hai or ik meri chah hai. Ho ga wohi jo meri chah hai. Bas agr tu nay khud ko sapurd ker deya oskay jo meri chah hai, to mai tujh ko wo bhi doo ga jo teri chah hai. Lakin agr tu nay mukhalfat ki oski jo meri chah hai, to mai tujh ko thaka doo ga osmai jo teri chah hai. Beshak ho ga wohi jo meri chah hai"

Hum wo tamam aafaal(افعال) sar injam de rhay hotay hai jo allah ki chah k khilaf hotay hai. Hum allah ki trf say mutaain (متعین) kerdah rastay ki mukhalif simt per chal rahay hotay hai, hamai ehsas hi nhi hota k hum kis gunnah k murtaqib tehraye ja rhay hotay hai. Hum apni chah ko pora kernay ki tag-o-doo mai masroof hotay hai, or wo Allah apni chah ko pora ker k dikhata hai jismai sirf haamari bhalai shamil hoti hai.
Beshak insan bara hi bekhabar waqaiya howa hai!!

- Danial Hassan

 

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"you give me wings & now u say don't fly you give me shoes & now u say don't run, you give me music & now u say don't sing, you give me rythem & now u say don't dance, you give me heart & now u say don't fall, you give me brain & now u say don't think too much... you give me freedom & now u say don't unlock ur cage, you give me questions &now u say don't ask answer you give me trust & now u say don't believe , you give me emotion & now you say don't feel, you give me eyes & now u say don't cry, you give me hands & now you say don't help, you give me language & now u say don't express you give me wings...."

you give me wings & now u say don't fly
you give me shoes & now u say don't run,
you give me music & now u say don't sing,
you give me rythem & now u say don't dance,
you give me heart & now u say don't fall,
you give me brain & now u say don't think too much...
you give me freedom & now u say don't unlock ur cage,
you give me questions &now u say don't ask answer
you give me trust & now u say  don't believe ,
you give me emotion & now you say don't feel,
you give me eyes & now u say don't cry,
you give me hands & now you say don't help,
you give me language & now u say don't express 
you give me wings....

freedom...

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"Tum Kaisi Mohabbat karti Ho..!! Tum Jab Bhi Ghar Par Aati Ho Aur Sab Say Batain Karti Ho Mein Aout Say Parday ki Janaa'n Bus Tum Ko Dekhta Rehta Hoon Ik Tum Ko Dekhnay Ki Khatir Mein Kitna Pagal Hota Hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jab Darwazay Par Dastak Ho Ya Ghanti Phone Ki Bajti Ho Mein Chor K Sab Kuch Bhagta Hoon Aur Tum Ko Jo Na Paoon Tou Ji Bhar K Ronay Lagta Hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Mehfil Mein Kahin Bhi Jana Ho Kapron Ka Selection Kerna Ho Rang Bohat Say Samnay Bikhray Hoon Us Rang Pe Dil Aa Jata Hai Jo Rang K Tum Ko Bhata Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Rozana Apnay College Mein Kisi Aur Ka Lecture Suntay Hoay Ya Break K Khali Ghantay Mein dosti Say Batain Kertay Hoay Meray Dhiyan Mein Tum Aa Jati Ho Mein, Mein Nahin Rehta Phir Janan Mein Tum Mein Gum Ho Jata hoon Bus Khuwabon Mein Kho Jata Hoon Un Aankhon Mein Kho Jata Hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jis Chehray Par Bhi Nighah Paray Her Chehra Tum Sa Lagta Hai Wo Sham Ho Ya Ke Dhop Samey Sab Kitna Bhala Sa Lagta Hai Janay Ye Kaisa Nasha Hai Garmi Ka Tapta Mausam Bhi Jaray Ka Maheena Lagta Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Tum Jab Bhi Samnay Aati Ho Mein Tum Say Sunn'na Chahta Hoon Kash Kabhi Tum Ye Keh Do Tum Mujh Say Muhabbat Kerti Ho Tum Mujh Ko Bohat Hi Chahti Ho Lekin Janay Tum Kyun Chup Ho Yeh Soch K Dil Ghabrata Hai Aisa Tou Nahin Hai Na janan Sirf Meri Nazar Ka Dhoka Ho Tum Nay Mujh Ko Chaha Hi Na Ho Koi Aur Hi Dil Mein Rehta Ho Mein Tum Say Poochna Chahta hoon Mein Tum Say Kehna Chahta hoon Lekin Kuch Pooch Nahin Sakta Mana Ke Muhabbat Hai Phir Bhi Lab Apnay Khol Nahin Sakta Mein Larka Hoon Kaisay Keh Doon Mein Kaisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Mein Tum Say Ye Kaisay Pochoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho......!! Chup Chap See Mein Ho Jata Hoon Phir Dil Mein Apnay Kehta hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho...... tum kaisi mohabbat karti ho .????????????"

Tum Kaisi Mohabbat karti Ho..!! Tum Jab
Bhi Ghar Par Aati Ho Aur Sab Say Batain
Karti Ho Mein Aout Say Parday ki Janaa'n
Bus Tum Ko Dekhta Rehta Hoon Ik Tum Ko
Dekhnay Ki Khatir Mein Kitna Pagal Hota
Hoon
Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jab Darwazay Par
Dastak Ho Ya Ghanti Phone Ki Bajti Ho Mein
Chor K Sab Kuch Bhagta Hoon Aur Tum Ko Jo
Na Paoon Tou Ji Bhar K Ronay Lagta Hoon
Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Mehfil Mein Kahin
Bhi Jana Ho Kapron Ka Selection Kerna Ho
Rang Bohat Say Samnay Bikhray Hoon Us
Rang Pe Dil Aa Jata Hai Jo Rang K Tum Ko
Bhata Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon
Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Rozana
Apnay College Mein Kisi Aur Ka Lecture
Suntay Hoay Ya Break K Khali Ghantay Mein
dosti Say Batain Kertay Hoay Meray
Dhiyan Mein Tum Aa Jati Ho Mein, Mein
Nahin Rehta Phir Janan Mein Tum Mein Gum
Ho Jata hoon Bus Khuwabon Mein Kho Jata
Hoon Un Aankhon Mein Kho Jata Hoon Mein
Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jis Chehray Par Bhi
Nighah Paray Her Chehra Tum Sa Lagta Hai
Wo Sham Ho Ya Ke Dhop Samey Sab Kitna
Bhala Sa Lagta Hai Janay Ye Kaisa Nasha
Hai Garmi Ka Tapta Mausam Bhi Jaray Ka
Maheena Lagta Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta
Hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Tum
Jab Bhi Samnay Aati Ho Mein Tum Say
Sunn'na Chahta Hoon Kash Kabhi Tum Ye Keh
Do Tum Mujh Say Muhabbat Kerti Ho Tum
Mujh Ko Bohat Hi Chahti Ho Lekin Janay
Tum Kyun Chup Ho Yeh Soch K Dil Ghabrata
Hai Aisa Tou Nahin Hai Na janan Sirf Meri
Nazar Ka Dhoka Ho Tum Nay Mujh Ko Chaha
Hi Na Ho Koi Aur Hi Dil Mein Rehta Ho Mein
Tum Say Poochna Chahta hoon Mein Tum Say
Kehna Chahta hoon Lekin Kuch Pooch Nahin
Sakta Mana Ke Muhabbat Hai Phir Bhi Lab
Apnay Khol Nahin Sakta Mein Larka Hoon
Kaisay Keh Doon Mein Kaisi Muhabbat Kerta
Hoon Mein Tum Say Ye Kaisay Pochoon Tum
Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho......!! Chup Chap
See Mein Ho Jata Hoon Phir Dil Mein Apnay
Kehta hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon
Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho......
tum kaisi mohabbat karti ho .????????????

aryan_0625

Tum Kaisi Mohabbat karti Ho..!! Tum Jab
Bhi Ghar Par Aati Ho Aur Sab Say Batain
Karti Ho Mein Aout Say Parday ki Janaa'n
Bus Tum Ko Dekhta Rehta Hoon Ik Tum Ko
Dekhnay Ki Khatir Mein Kitna Pagal Hota
Hoon
Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jab Darwazay Par
Dastak Ho Ya Ghanti Phone Ki Bajti Ho Mein
Chor K Sab Kuch Bhagta Hoon Aur Tum Ko Jo
Na Paoon Tou Ji Bhar K Ronay Lagta Hoon
Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Mehfil Mein Kahin
Bhi Jana Ho Kapron Ka Selection Kerna Ho
Rang Bohat Say Samnay Bikhray Hoon Us
Rang Pe Dil Aa Jata Hai Jo Rang K Tum Ko
Bhata Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta Hoon
Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Rozana
Apnay College Mein Kisi Aur Ka Lecture
Suntay Hoay Ya Break K Khali Ghantay Mein
dosti Say Batain Kertay Hoay Meray
Dhiyan Mein Tum Aa Jati Ho Mein, Mein
Nahin Rehta Phir Janan Mein Tum Mein Gum
Ho Jata hoon Bus Khuwabon Mein Kho Jata
Hoon Un Aankhon Mein Kho Jata Hoon Mein
Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon Tum Kaisi
Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Jis Chehray Par Bhi
Nighah Paray Her Chehra Tum Sa Lagta Hai
Wo Sham Ho Ya Ke Dhop Samey Sab Kitna
Bhala Sa Lagta Hai Janay Ye Kaisa Nasha
Hai Garmi Ka Tapta Mausam Bhi Jaray Ka
Maheena Lagta Hai Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta
Hoon Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho..?? Tum
Jab Bhi Samnay Aati Ho Mein Tum Say
Sunn'na Chahta Hoon Kash Kabhi Tum Ye Keh
Do Tum Mujh Say Muhabbat Kerti Ho Tum
Mujh Ko Bohat Hi Chahti Ho Lekin Janay
Tum Kyun Chup Ho Yeh Soch K Dil Ghabrata
Hai Aisa Tou Nahin Hai Na janan Sirf Meri
Nazar Ka Dhoka Ho Tum Nay Mujh Ko Chaha
Hi Na Ho Koi Aur Hi Dil Mein Rehta Ho Mein
Tum Say Poochna Chahta hoon Mein Tum Say
Kehna Chahta hoon Lekin Kuch Pooch Nahin
Sakta Mana Ke Muhabbat Hai Phir Bhi Lab
Apnay Khol Nahin Sakta Mein Larka Hoon
Kaisay Keh Doon Mein Kaisi Muhabbat Kerta
Hoon Mein Tum Say Ye Kaisay Pochoon Tum
Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho......!! Chup Chap
See Mein Ho Jata Hoon Phir Dil Mein Apnay
Kehta hoon Mein Aisi Muhabbat Kerta hoon
Tum Kaisi Muhabbat Kerti Ho......
tum kaisi mohabbat karti ho .????????????

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How to Attain Victory Over Anger
Just as you learn to keep accounts, and when you learn the key elements of accounting then tracking becomes very easy. Similarly there is a main point, the key element, the root of every question, and if you learn this then the answer to that question will automatically come to you.The question that has come is that how to attain victory over anger? Then the question really is, where does anger come from? Gita says - “Anger comes from desire” - “kaamaatkrodhaayabhijaayate” (Gita 2/62). What is that anger? Human beings have understood that “desires are for money, wealth, grandeur, power, etc.” - These are also desires, but what is the main and real desire? “This should happen and this should not happen” - the name of this subtle want within is called “desire”.
First you hold on to the point that “this should certainly happen” and when that does not happen, then you become angry. And “This should not happen” and when someone does that or does something opposing to your wishes, then you get angry. This should happen and this should not happen, this is the root of all anger.
There is no gain in desiring that it should happen like this, or it should not happen like this; because will the world ask us before doing something? Will they do according to your liking? You want from your wife, son and servant that they should listen to you, then do they not wish the same of you? If they have nothing on their mind then they will do as you say, but in their minds too there is that thought that “ I will do it this way or not do it this way” then how will they listen only to you? When you too are not willing to listen to how they want things done, then what rights do you have that they should listen to your ways? Therefore when the feeling arises within that “This should happen like this and it should not happen like this” - then leave the insistence that the person should do it like that alone. In this insistence is your pride, in other words, I am greater, therefore he should listen to me. This pride of greatness is the main cause, and when things do not happen the way you want, then that pride itself comes in the form of anger.
If you desire peace then give up pride; because pride is the root of all the demoniac qualities. In the shadow of pride of greatness lies all the demoniac qualities of Kaliyug, All the bad qualities pertaining to demoniac qualities such as anger, greed, attachment, jealousy, passion, hypocrisy, deceit etc., they all come under the umbrella of pride, because pride is their king. If you do not give up pride then how will anger go away! Therefore give up that pride.
Now what is the solution for giving it up? Those who do not listen to you, they are helping you in getting rid of your pride, and those who listen and do as you say, they are swelling your pride - are you getting this point or not? The people who are obeying you are not benefiting you as much as, those who don’t do as you say. For you own good, the more that your pride is confronted the more better it is for you. Therefore you must be grateful to those who are not listening to you, because as such this is for our own well-being.
If they knowingly do not listen to you, saying that brother, we are not listening to you because it is for your own good, as your pride will go away, then to it is to your benefit only. They are not further swelling your pride i.e. your pride is not getting further bloated. Do you not wish for what is for your good or do you not? Do you want your spiritual progress or do you want your downfall? If you desire your spiritual growth, then it will be possible only when you are free of pride. And you will become free of pride when no one listens to you. If someone listens to you, then your words become established and this itself is cause for pride. This itself is demoniac tendency - “dambho darpobhimaanashrav krodhah” (Gita 16/4). Therefore those who do not listen to you, they are gracing you immensely. They are removing your demoniac tendencies and instilling divine tendencies in you.
Now the question that has come is that by not listening the child will become insolent and arrogant? By listening to you, you will become filled with pride, and if he does not listen then he will become insolent - now think deeply on these two points. If you are not there, then too by doing as he wants he will become insolent regardless, however how will your pride go away? Insolent he will be regardless of you, but your pride will not go away. Therefore you must get rid of your pride first and the foremost.
Second point is that if you do not dominate over him then your mild nature, that is free from pride will make an impression on him, by which his insolence will go away, rather he will become alright. You say to him that brother, you must not do this sort of work, and even thereafter if he does so, let go and become peaceful and silent. If he behaves insolently, he will get the consequences of his actions. On getting the fruits, he will become alert, and then his insolence will automatically go away. But by your persistent telling, his insolence will not go away as quickly as it would go away from suffering the consequences of his insolent behavior. The reason for this is that in his mind he will hold on to his own points, and what you say will stay superficially on the surface like silver plating. That plating will wear off, then how can his insolence go away entirely? The real solution to getting rid of his insolence is to get rid of your own pride.
If man wants to live in a family, then he must learn how to live in a family. The art of living in the family is that do as they say, do according what their wishes are. Fulfill your duty and make them happy.
What does it mean to live in a family? You have certain obligation to fulfill your duty. What is your duty? To fulfill your duties properly, whether the wife listens, does not listen, whether the son listens, does not listen, whether brother listens, does not listen, whether parents listen, do not listen. Do not ever look towards whether they do their duty or not. When you look towards their duty, and see towards their insolent or rebellious behavior etc., during such times you are deviating from your duty. Rather, you are falling from your duty. As such, where has it been said that your duty is to see towards other’s faults? No where in the scriptures it has been said that you see towards other’s faults; rather it has been said that this world is made up of the three constituents of nature (mode of passion “rajas”, ignorance “tamas” and goodness “sattva”, it is filled with faults.
Gun yah ubhaya na dekhiahin dekhia so abibek ||
(Manas 7/41)If others have good qualities you may see them, but do not see their bad qualities. If you see towards their bad qualities, those qualities will come in you. And on seeing those bad qualities if you are getting angry with them to rescue them from their willful acts, then you cannot be saved from that anger. Therefore you do your duty. We are not to see towards other’s duty, nor are we to see towards their flaws. Yes! If you have a son, then it is your duty to teach him good lessons, but wanting that he should do exactly as you say - that is not your duty. That is his duty. It is not your duty to show him what his duty is. Your duty is only to say that son, look it is not good to do like this. If he says - “no, no father, I will do it like this”; then say – “OK, do it that way!” This is a very good medicine. I too am taking this medicine. The medicine that has been given, is a very effective medicine. If you say – “Do like this” and if he says, “No ! I will do like that only.” Then
simply say – “OK! do it like that.”Rajjab ros na kijiye koyi kahe kyon hi |
Hasker utter dijiye haa babaji yu hi ||If what he is doing is sinful or unlawful, then do not accept it. We are to say that which is in accordance with the scriptures, however if they do not listen, then do the scriptures say to fight with them or to control them? You only have the rights to tell them what you know to be true, “karmanyavaadhikaaraste” (Gita 2/47) but thinking that they should do exactly as you say - that is the fruit, to which you have no rights. “Maa phaleshu kadaachan” (Gita 2/47). You have done your part, your duty was only to point out. It was not your duty to make then do as you say! To do as you say is their duty. We only have to explain their duty. If they fulfill their duty then there is no obstacle in your spiritual progress and if they do not fulfill their duty then too there is no loss. There is no loss for you at all, because you have said what is for their welfare. This is a priceless point !
Narayana! Narayana !! Narayana !!!
From "Jeevan Upyogi Pravachan " in Hindi by Swami Ramsukhdasji

नारायण ! नारायण ! नारायण !

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"MUHABAT Muhabat kiya hai? Taseer-e-muhabat kiya hai? Mahboob ka majboor kerna or muhib ka majboor ho jana? Hamaisha easa hi ku hota hai k 7 arab say zaid logon mai hamai sirf aik easay hi shaks say muhabat ho jati hai jo hum say be-naiz hota hai? Sirf aik osi insan k peechay hum apni tamam qowatai sarf ker k apna sab har jatay hai. Ku hum zaat k bajaye wajood ki talash mai rehtay hai? Ku humai allah rah-e-rast per nhi lata? Jub keh wo to logon k dilo ko moar denay ki taqat rakhta hai. Phir ku allah humai tanha choor deta hai? Jb hum tahajud mai allah rab ul izat say ratoon ko uth ker sirf osi shaks ko mangtay hai jis say hamari zindagi ka tasalsul barqarar hai, to wo hamari ku nhi sunta? Hum say ku bekhabar ho jata hai, jesay osay kuch ilm hi nhi? Ye kesay mumkin hai k kurah e arz( کرہ ارض) per aik insan dosray insan k leye tarp raha ho or osay khabar tak hi na ho. Wo to khud kehta hai k mai tmsay 70 maaon say bhi zada muhabat kerta hoon, to phir wo ku begana ho jata hai? Osnay to wada keya hai k aee ibn e adam tu mughsay mang, mai tughay nawazoo ga, phir wo humai wo shaks ku nhi de deta jis k hum talab gar hotay hai? Hum kesay ye tawaqo ker sktay hai k jis say hum sab say zada olfat rakhtay hai wo bhi hamaray leye easay hi jazbat rakhta ho? Oskay jazbaat ki shidat bhi wohi ho jo hamaray jazbaat ki shidat hai? Jb allah hamai itni shidat say apnay pass bulata hai to kiya hum osi shidat say oskay pass jatay hai? Wo humai din mai 5 bar dawat deta hai jo hum be khoof-o- be drdi say thukra detay hai. To hum ye kesay ommed laga lain k jo amal hum kertay hai os ka azala nhi bharna ho ga? Ye duniya to makafat e amal hai. Lakin nhi! Hamara zarf allah k zarf jitna nhi hai. Hum gunnah kertay hai, mgr wo یوں apna rawaiya rakhta hai jesay osnay kuch dekha hi na ho. Wo apna rizq nhi rokta. Ye sb hamaray zheno ka fitoor hai. Bhala easay ho skta hai k hum mangay or wo na de? Wo deta zurur hai, magr wo jo hamaray leye behtr ho, na k wo jisko hum apnay leye behtr tasawur kerai. Wo duwain qabool kerta hai, magr tb jb onki qabooliyat ka behtareen waqt ho! Na keh tb jb onki qabooliyat ka baad tareen wqt ho. Wo to hamara bhala chahta hai. Wo to kehta hai na "ae ibn e adam! Ik teri chah hai or ik meri chah hai. Ho ga wohi jo meri chah hai. Bas agr tu nay khud ko sapurd ker deya oskay jo meri chah hai, to mai tujh ko wo bhi doo ga jo teri chah hai. Lakin agr tu nay mukhalfat ki oski jo meri chah hai, to mai tujh ko thaka doo ga osmai jo teri chah hai. Beshak ho ga wohi jo meri chah hai" Hum wo tamam aafaal(افعال) sar injam de rhay hotay hai jo allah ki chah k khilaf hotay hai. Hum allah ki trf say mutaain (متعین) kerdah rastay ki mukhalif simt per chal rahay hotay hai, hamai ehsas hi nhi hota k hum kis gunnah k murtaqib tehraye ja rhay hotay hai. Hum apni chah ko pora kernay ki tag-o-doo mai masroof hotay hai, or wo Allah apni chah ko pora ker k dikhata hai jismai sirf haamari bhalai shamil hoti hai. Beshak insan bara hi bekhabar waqaiya howa hai!! - Danial Hassan"

MUHABAT
Muhabat kiya hai? Taseer-e-muhabat kiya hai? Mahboob ka majboor kerna or muhib ka majboor ho jana?
Hamaisha easa hi ku hota hai k 7 arab say zaid logon mai hamai sirf aik easay hi shaks say muhabat ho jati hai jo hum say be-naiz hota hai?
Sirf aik osi insan k peechay hum apni tamam qowatai sarf ker k apna sab har jatay hai. 
Ku hum zaat k bajaye wajood ki talash mai rehtay hai?
Ku humai allah rah-e-rast per nhi lata? Jub keh wo to logon k dilo ko moar denay ki taqat rakhta hai. Phir ku allah humai tanha choor deta hai? Jb hum tahajud mai allah rab ul izat say ratoon ko uth ker sirf osi shaks ko mangtay hai jis say hamari zindagi ka tasalsul barqarar hai, to wo hamari ku nhi sunta?
Hum say ku bekhabar ho jata hai, jesay osay kuch ilm hi nhi?
Ye kesay mumkin hai k kurah e arz( کرہ ارض) per aik insan dosray insan k leye tarp raha ho or osay khabar tak hi na ho. Wo to khud kehta hai k mai tmsay 70 maaon say bhi zada muhabat kerta hoon, to phir wo ku begana ho jata hai?
Osnay to wada keya hai k aee ibn e adam tu mughsay mang, mai tughay nawazoo ga, phir wo humai wo shaks ku nhi de deta jis k hum talab gar hotay hai?
Hum kesay ye tawaqo ker sktay hai k jis say hum sab say zada olfat rakhtay hai wo bhi hamaray leye easay hi jazbat rakhta ho?
Oskay jazbaat ki shidat bhi wohi ho jo hamaray jazbaat ki shidat hai? Jb allah hamai itni shidat say apnay pass bulata hai to kiya hum osi shidat say oskay pass jatay hai? Wo humai din mai 5 bar dawat deta hai jo hum be khoof-o- be drdi say thukra detay hai. To hum ye kesay ommed laga lain k jo amal hum kertay hai os ka azala nhi bharna ho ga? 
Ye duniya to makafat e amal hai. Lakin nhi! Hamara zarf allah k zarf jitna nhi hai. Hum gunnah kertay hai, mgr wo یوں apna rawaiya rakhta hai jesay osnay kuch dekha hi na ho. Wo apna rizq nhi rokta.
Ye sb hamaray zheno ka fitoor hai. Bhala easay ho skta hai k hum mangay or wo na de? Wo deta zurur hai, magr wo jo hamaray leye behtr ho, na k wo jisko hum apnay leye behtr tasawur kerai. Wo duwain qabool kerta hai, magr tb jb onki qabooliyat ka behtareen waqt ho! Na keh tb jb onki qabooliyat ka baad tareen wqt ho. Wo to hamara bhala chahta hai. Wo to kehta hai na

    "ae ibn e adam!  Ik teri chah hai or ik meri chah hai. Ho ga wohi jo meri chah hai. Bas agr tu nay khud ko sapurd ker deya oskay jo meri chah hai, to mai tujh ko wo bhi doo ga jo teri chah hai. Lakin agr tu nay mukhalfat ki oski jo meri chah hai, to mai tujh ko thaka doo ga osmai jo teri chah hai. Beshak ho ga wohi jo meri chah hai"

Hum wo tamam aafaal(افعال) sar injam de rhay hotay hai jo allah ki chah k khilaf hotay hai. Hum allah ki trf say mutaain (متعین) kerdah rastay ki mukhalif simt per chal rahay hotay hai, hamai ehsas hi nhi hota k hum kis gunnah k murtaqib tehraye ja rhay hotay hai. Hum apni chah ko pora kernay ki tag-o-doo mai masroof hotay hai, or wo Allah apni chah ko pora ker k dikhata hai jismai sirf haamari bhalai shamil hoti hai.
Beshak insan bara hi bekhabar waqaiya howa hai!!

- Danial Hassan

 

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"MUHABAT Muhabat kiya hai? Taseer-e-muhabat kiya hai? Mahboob ka majboor kerna or muhib ka majboor ho jana? Hamaisha easa hi ku hota hai k 7 arab say zaid logon mai hamai sirf aik easay hi shaks say muhabat ho jati hai jo hum say be-naiz hota hai? Sirf aik osi insan k peechay hum apni tamam qowatai sarf ker k apna sab har jatay hai. Ku hum zaat k bajaye wajood ki talash mai rehtay hai? Ku humai allah rah-e-rast per nhi lata? Jub keh wo to logon k dilo ko moar denay ki taqat rakhta hai. Phir ku allah humai tanha choor deta hai? Jb hum tahajud mai allah rab ul izat say ratoon ko uth ker sirf osi shaks ko mangtay hai jis say hamari zindagi ka tasalsul barqarar hai, to wo hamari ku nhi sunta? Hum say ku bekhabar ho jata hai, jesay osay kuch ilm hi nhi? Ye kesay mumkin hai k kurah e arz( کرہ ارض) per aik insan dosray insan k leye tarp raha ho or osay khabar tak hi na ho. Wo to khud kehta hai k mai tmsay 70 maaon say bhi zada muhabat kerta hoon, to phir wo ku begana ho jata hai? Osnay to wada keya hai k aee ibn e adam tu mughsay mang, mai tughay nawazoo ga, phir wo humai wo shaks ku nhi de deta jis k hum talab gar hotay hai? Hum kesay ye tawaqo ker sktay hai k jis say hum sab say zada olfat rakhtay hai wo bhi hamaray leye easay hi jazbat rakhta ho? Oskay jazbaat ki shidat bhi wohi ho jo hamaray jazbaat ki shidat hai? Jb allah hamai itni shidat say apnay pass bulata hai to kiya hum osi shidat say oskay pass jatay hai? Wo humai din mai 5 bar dawat deta hai jo hum be khoof-o- be drdi say thukra detay hai. To hum ye kesay ommed laga lain k jo amal hum kertay hai os ka azala nhi bharna ho ga? Ye duniya to makafat e amal hai. Lakin nhi! Hamara zarf allah k zarf jitna nhi hai. Hum gunnah kertay hai, mgr wo یوں apna rawaiya rakhta hai jesay osnay kuch dekha hi na ho. Wo apna rizq nhi rokta. Ye sb hamaray zheno ka fitoor hai. Bhala easay ho skta hai k hum mangay or wo na de? Wo deta zurur hai, magr wo jo hamaray leye behtr ho, na k wo jisko hum apnay leye behtr tasawur kerai. Wo duwain qabool kerta hai, magr tb jb onki qabooliyat ka behtareen waqt ho! Na keh tb jb onki qabooliyat ka baad tareen wqt ho. Wo to hamara bhala chahta hai. Wo to kehta hai na "ae ibn e adam! Ik teri chah hai or ik meri chah hai. Ho ga wohi jo meri chah hai. Bas agr tu nay khud ko sapurd ker deya oskay jo meri chah hai, to mai tujh ko wo bhi doo ga jo teri chah hai. Lakin agr tu nay mukhalfat ki oski jo meri chah hai, to mai tujh ko thaka doo ga osmai jo teri chah hai. Beshak ho ga wohi jo meri chah hai" Hum wo tamam aafaal(افعال) sar injam de rhay hotay hai jo allah ki chah k khilaf hotay hai. Hum allah ki trf say mutaain (متعین) kerdah rastay ki mukhalif simt per chal rahay hotay hai, hamai ehsas hi nhi hota k hum kis gunnah k murtaqib tehraye ja rhay hotay hai. Hum apni chah ko pora kernay ki tag-o-doo mai masroof hotay hai, or wo Allah apni chah ko pora ker k dikhata hai jismai sirf haamari bhalai shamil hoti hai. Beshak insan bara hi bekhabar waqaiya howa hai!! - Danial Hassan"

MUHABAT
Muhabat kiya hai? Taseer-e-muhabat kiya hai? Mahboob ka majboor kerna or muhib ka majboor ho jana?
Hamaisha easa hi ku hota hai k 7 arab say zaid logon mai hamai sirf aik easay hi shaks say muhabat ho jati hai jo hum say be-naiz hota hai?
Sirf aik osi insan k peechay hum apni tamam qowatai sarf ker k apna sab har jatay hai. 
Ku hum zaat k bajaye wajood ki talash mai rehtay hai?
Ku humai allah rah-e-rast per nhi lata? Jub keh wo to logon k dilo ko moar denay ki taqat rakhta hai. Phir ku allah humai tanha choor deta hai? Jb hum tahajud mai allah rab ul izat say ratoon ko uth ker sirf osi shaks ko mangtay hai jis say hamari zindagi ka tasalsul barqarar hai, to wo hamari ku nhi sunta?
Hum say ku bekhabar ho jata hai, jesay osay kuch ilm hi nhi?
Ye kesay mumkin hai k kurah e arz( کرہ ارض) per aik insan dosray insan k leye tarp raha ho or osay khabar tak hi na ho. Wo to khud kehta hai k mai tmsay 70 maaon say bhi zada muhabat kerta hoon, to phir wo ku begana ho jata hai?
Osnay to wada keya hai k aee ibn e adam tu mughsay mang, mai tughay nawazoo ga, phir wo humai wo shaks ku nhi de deta jis k hum talab gar hotay hai?
Hum kesay ye tawaqo ker sktay hai k jis say hum sab say zada olfat rakhtay hai wo bhi hamaray leye easay hi jazbat rakhta ho?
Oskay jazbaat ki shidat bhi wohi ho jo hamaray jazbaat ki shidat hai? Jb allah hamai itni shidat say apnay pass bulata hai to kiya hum osi shidat say oskay pass jatay hai? Wo humai din mai 5 bar dawat deta hai jo hum be khoof-o- be drdi say thukra detay hai. To hum ye kesay ommed laga lain k jo amal hum kertay hai os ka azala nhi bharna ho ga? 
Ye duniya to makafat e amal hai. Lakin nhi! Hamara zarf allah k zarf jitna nhi hai. Hum gunnah kertay hai, mgr wo یوں apna rawaiya rakhta hai jesay osnay kuch dekha hi na ho. Wo apna rizq nhi rokta.
Ye sb hamaray zheno ka fitoor hai. Bhala easay ho skta hai k hum mangay or wo na de? Wo deta zurur hai, magr wo jo hamaray leye behtr ho, na k wo jisko hum apnay leye behtr tasawur kerai. Wo duwain qabool kerta hai, magr tb jb onki qabooliyat ka behtareen waqt ho! Na keh tb jb onki qabooliyat ka baad tareen wqt ho. Wo to hamara bhala chahta hai. Wo to kehta hai na

    "ae ibn e adam!  Ik teri chah hai or ik meri chah hai. Ho ga wohi jo meri chah hai. Bas agr tu nay khud ko sapurd ker deya oskay jo meri chah hai, to mai tujh ko wo bhi doo ga jo teri chah hai. Lakin agr tu nay mukhalfat ki oski jo meri chah hai, to mai tujh ko thaka doo ga osmai jo teri chah hai. Beshak ho ga wohi jo meri chah hai"

Hum wo tamam aafaal(افعال) sar injam de rhay hotay hai jo allah ki chah k khilaf hotay hai. Hum allah ki trf say mutaain (متعین) kerdah rastay ki mukhalif simt per chal rahay hotay hai, hamai ehsas hi nhi hota k hum kis gunnah k murtaqib tehraye ja rhay hotay hai. Hum apni chah ko pora kernay ki tag-o-doo mai masroof hotay hai, or wo Allah apni chah ko pora ker k dikhata hai jismai sirf haamari bhalai shamil hoti hai.
Beshak insan bara hi bekhabar waqaiya howa hai!!

- Danial Hassan

 

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"you give me wings & now u say don't fly you give me shoes & now u say don't run, you give me music & now u say don't sing, you give me rythem & now u say don't dance, you give me heart & now u say don't fall, you give me brain & now u say don't think too much... you give me freedom & now u say don't unlock ur cage, you give me questions &now u say don't ask answer you give me trust & now u say don't believe , you give me emotion & now you say don't feel, you give me eyes & now u say don't cry, you give me hands & now you say don't help, you give me language & now u say don't express you give me wings...."

you give me wings & now u say don't fly
you give me shoes & now u say don't run,
you give me music & now u say don't sing,
you give me rythem & now u say don't dance,
you give me heart & now u say don't fall,
you give me brain & now u say don't think too much...
you give me freedom & now u say don't unlock ur cage,
you give me questions &now u say don't ask answer
you give me trust & now u say  don't believe ,
you give me emotion & now you say don't feel,
you give me eyes & now u say don't cry,
you give me hands & now you say don't help,
you give me language & now u say don't express 
you give me wings....

freedom...

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